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Ok ladies; let’s have a look at some different techniques that will work to get you off. The majority of women, me included can only attain orgasm through manual stimulation. There are a few who can achieve orgasm through intercourse alone and I’m jealous of them. Anyway, here are some techniques that might add a little variety to your masturbation play.

This post has explicit images to easily and illustratively explain the masturbation techniques so scroll down when you are alone … ssshhhh!!

Sooner or later the majority of us learn to achieve an orgasm from masturbatory activity of some sort or another. Once we find a way of ‘getting off’ it can be the easy option to stick with that method all the time. Though that may be fine if all you want is a surefire orgasm, ‘variety is the spice of life’, and a few alternative techniques may just add something to your fun. In this section I have recorded a whole range of techniques that I have tried or which I have heard of and think sound practical and fun. Feel free to try any or all of them, and add to them if you want.

Moreover you will be pleasantly surprised that there are multiple health benefits of fingering or masturbation.

The simple truth is there are as many different masturbation techniques as there are women masturbating, and that’s more than you might think!! If you’ve never tried to masturbate before then I suggest you begin by using what you have at your fingertips, umm, your fingertips, before moving onto more advance techniques and spending your hard cash on sex toys. Toys are great but I personally think there is no better way to explore yourself than with your own fingers, after all you expect your partner to!

Self-stimulation process of female masturbation

Direct clitoral stimulation

Fingering vagina

Most girls probably first discover masturbation by innocently touching their genitals with their fingers. It’s therefore probably not surprising that hand and finger stimulation of the vulva and clitoris is reported to be the most common method of masturbation among women. It is also the easiest as nothing extra is needed for a satisfying session. So how to best do it? Nothing is ever as simple as ‘one best way for all’ so some real life examples picked up from various sources is possibly the best way of illustrating what is involved:

Lying on the bed facing up with legs together and ankles crossed. Index finger slipped between the labia majora so that it presses along the length of the clitoris. Gentle but firm wrist movements to make the inserted finger rub the clitoris in up and down, side to side and circular motions. Speed and strength of movement increased as excitement builds. Sensations increased by squeezing thigh muscles together at same time as finger rubbing clitoris.

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Lying on back with legs drawn up and knees allowed to flop apart. Palm of hand placed on pubic mound and fingers allowed to rest on open vulva. Movement of hand to stimulate clitoris in side to side, up and down, circular and gentle pinching movements.

Lying face down on bed with both hands underneath and between legs. Fingers pressed against vulva and clitoris. Pelvic thrusts to move the genitals up and down against the fingers.

Sitting in a comfortable chair or couch with legs well spread. Taking clitoris between the tips of both index fingers, rolling it around and pulling back on its hood to get maximum stimulation.

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Rolling, rolling, and rolling – ok, for this technique you need to place your thumb and forefinger around the clitoris and gently roll it in between your fingers. You can start off with a slow gentle roll and then gradually pick up the pace and the pressure according to what feels good to you.

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Circular rub on Vulva and more

I generally find that if I am in a hurry this technique works wonders. Just take your first two fingers from either hand and place them over top of you clitoris. Then begin moving them in a circular motion over top of the clitoris.

female masturbation circular rubbing vagina

You can vary the speed and pressure easily with this technique. I find that if I use this one I can reach orgasm in under a minute. If you want to change the feel slightly just add your favorite lube and everything becomes very slippery.

Tapping – This technique is a little different and it’s not for everyone, as with anything some things will work for some people and not for others. For this one I use my left hand to pull the pussy lips back out of the way so that the clitoris is very exposed. Then with my index finger on my right hand I lightly begin tapping the fingertip gently on the clitoris. It results in a very delicious sensation that builds to a point where you just can’t hold it back anymore.

Combination – There is nothing that gets me wetter faster than using a combination of both hands. Have your fingers from one hand playing with your clitoris, stimulating it however you wish. Take the other hand and place two or three fingers inside your vagina and begin thrusting. Basically you’re simulating intercourse with this action and it works rather nicely in tandem with the clitoral stimulation and can bring you to a rocking orgasm!

Waterworks on vagina

Water is your friend

It can be used in a multitude of ways to get you off! Try these out. Please avoid sending strong streams of water directly into your vagina as that can be potentially dangerous. Think bath tub here, think shower and think Jacuzzi/hot tub. All of these can be used to great effect in the wonderful world magic kingdom of clitoral massage.

Running Water – I’m sure you’ve all stuck your hands under the water flow when you’re filling the tub for your bath to check the temperature of the water. Now, just imagine that same water flow landing on your clitoris. It’s a wild feeling. This is the first way that I ever got off, before I even realized what it was that it was doing. The only thing you need for this one is some time and a bathtub. Hopefully your bathtub will be shaped properly so that you can slide your butt down against the end of the tub and position yourself so that the water flow will land on your clitoris.

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It’s best to start of with a lighter water flow and gradually work up to a higher pressure flow. Make sure that you test the warmth of the water before sticking your pussy under it, wouldn’t want to get scalded in that area!

Water Spray – this on is just a bit of a variation on the one above. In this instance just place your thumb or finger over the faucet and then direct the spray so that it falls directly on your clitoris.

Shower: Let’s look at the most common technique which involves the use of that neat little tool, the shower head. The hand held kinds are especially useful for this approach. The first thing you want to do is adjust the temperature so that it is not too hot for the sensitive area of the vagina. You can always turn up the heat once you are accustomed to the temperature. Then find a comfortable position – either sitting on a seat within the shower, or lying down in the tub.

Shower stalls can be a bit confining for this form of masturbation, but there is usually enough room to sit on the floor with your legs bent. I suggest for the first time that you do this that you not stand. I’ve found that when I’m nearing climax that my legs tend to weaken, and we don’t want any unnecessary trips to the emergency room when you accidentally slip and fall.

Now, take the shower head and let the water spray over your body, feel the tingling sensations as it sprays against your breasts. Imagine the sensations are being created by the hands of your lover and spray where you want to feel the touch. Slowly make your way down your torso to your vaginal area. Spreading your legs, let the water reach up and down the insides of your thighs, and when your ready for advancing, move it closer to your clit. Remember that direct contact with your clit may be overpowering, so try moving the water stream back and forth. Try bringing it closer, and moving it farther away to cover a larger area.

You also might note that shower massagers come with many different settings to adjust the streams of the water – everything from mist to pulse. Experiment, try them all! Start with the lightest amount of pressure and work your way up. If you are sitting, you can always operate the water with one hand, and use the fingers on the other hand to either stimulate your breasts and nipples, or you can insert a finger or two and see how that feels.

The main point is to relax and let your body feel all that is happening to it. If it feels good, keep doing it. If it’s not right, try sitting in a different position, change the water temperature, try a different pulse setting anything that makes if feel better.

If you still love your fingers and like to depend on your smooth hands, then try out different fingering positions to masturbate and enjoy.

Shower Massage – this is a great one if you’ve got one of those Shower Massage devices because you can pick whether it pulses or comes out in a steady spray. There are many options. You’ll have to experiment with them to see what works best for you.

Here again, you can adjust the pressure and temperature of the spray to whatever you’d like them to be. I’ve found on occasion that using cold water produces a different feeling than the warm water.

Bath Tub: Now we can move onto the bathtub. Like the shower head the bathtub holds many ways to excite and masturbate. Many women, me included, enjoy lying on their backs in their bathtub and allowing the water from the faucet to wash over their vagina. This isn’t always the easiest of positions to achieve but it can be great fun.

bath tub vaginal masturbation

Fill the tub with water about halfway. Lie on your back, and bring your buttocks up so they are against or almost against the end of the tub with the faucet. Position your vagina as directly below the faucet as possible. Adjust the temperature and pressure of the water flow to your liking; you might have to tilt up your pelvis to bring your vagina closer to the water flow of the faucet. It might help to use one or both hands to spread open your labia (vagina “lips”) so the water can flow directly onto your clitoris. Just one word of warning here, make sure the water isn’t too hot! There is nothing worse that scolding your pussy and it certainly isn’t pleasurable. Once you have found the right position, lie back, relax, fantasize, and enjoy!

“Occasionally I bring myself to orgasm in the bathtub. First I excite myself with fingers, and then I let the water on and get into an acrobatic position so my vagina is directly under the faucet. I start with the water warm or cool and at a low pressure on my clitoris. When I have gotten excited I run the water harder and lift myself closer to the water and let it pound into my vagina and then I come and it’s the most fantastic feeling.”

Another technique that can be fun involves filling an empty detergent bottle (one with a nozzle) or shampoo bottle with warm water. Sit in a full bath tub, ensuring your vulva is at least a couple of inches under water. Put the nozzle of the bottle as close as you like to your clitoris and squeeze. After each squeeze the bottle will spring back into shape, sucking in more water so there will be no need to stop for a refill.

Jacuzzi Jive /Hot Tub: If you’re lucky enough to own a hot tub/Jacuzzi, then the chances are you’re already aware of the wonderful effects that the water that flows from its jets can have on your body. Once you’ve found the right spot let yourself go and enjoy the warm water and indulge in a little fantasy. I like to begin by simply relaxing in the tub and allowing the water to wash over me. At this point I’ll open my mind and begin to fantasize, sometimes touching my breasts, other times just lying back and relaxing.

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Once my mind is aroused, I’ll turn towards the water jets and position my vagina clitoris so it’s directly in the path of the flowing water. A word of caution here: Never position yourself to close to the jet, as the jet has considerably more pressure behind it than that from the shower or bathtub. Begin by placing a fair amount of distance between yourself and the water jet and then move closer until you discover a spot that places just the right amount of pressure on your clitoris. Once you’ve found the right position, relax and enjoy the soothing sensation of the water as it washes over your body. All you need to
do is position yourself so that the water flow lands directly on your vagina and clitoris. If you are one of those girls that matches the traits of a woman who is sexually hyperactive then vibrations are sureshot ways to give you lots of pleasures.

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Vibrator Play: Vibrators are handy little gadgets and in my opinion every woman should have one tucked away in a drawer for those moments when you really need it. Vibrators are primarily used for clitoral stimulation but can also be used vaginally or anally if you prefer. You can try different combinations out to see which you like best. For those of us that take rather a long time to reach orgasm continued manual stimulation becomes quite tiring and wrist fatigue has probably prematurely ended countless masturbation sessions for many women. If this is the case then the answer could well be to make the very small investment required to buy a vibrator.

Good vibrations for female to masturbate

When it comes to vibrators there are basically two types -(i) those operated by batteries and (ii) those that require mains electricity. Whichever type you choose it’s important to realize that both types are powerful although in general the mains electric ones more so.

It’s a good idea not to use a vibrator directly on your clitoris the first time you ever try one because you might well find that the stimulation they afford is too intense. So I’d suggest that you first try placing it on your labia or your mons. You may even want to try using it whilst you have your panties on as this can produce a different more subtle sensation than direct clitoral contact. Don’t be afraid to try new things, they aren’t called sex toys for nothing. The idea is to have fun and find what works for you personally.

One thing that is often over looked when people first try vibrators is lubricants. Just simply adding a small amount of lubricant on your chosen toy before you begin playing can greatly enhance your experience. Just be sure that the lubricant is suitable for use with the vibrator of your choice.

Clit rub – Vibrators are great for clitoral control since you can change alter the speed of the vibration easily and bring yourself to the edge and then slow it down again. Pressure is a key factor as well. You may also want to try rubbing the vibrator over your inner thighs and around your pussy lips and even up over your nipples. Masturbation doesn’t have to be confined to just the clitoral area.

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Odd vibrators – Apart from commercially shop brought vibrators there are other vibrating devices that you could press into service for fun. For example, the back of the head of an electric tooth brush is great fun. The fact that it is really narrow allows it to be kept on the clitoris even if you like to squeeze your legs while you play. Automatic washing machines during spin cycle – if you can sit on it – are great. Electric shavers can be fun too, but you have to cover the cutting head. (I used this method as a girl at home several years ago. I would remove the cutting screen and would use sticking plasters to wrap the cutting head to make a padded surface with which to stimulate myself.) – Look around, you will find loads of things that vibrate in kitchens, bathrooms and garages and many can be used to masturbate, provided there are no sharp or moving parts that could hurt you.

Dildos for female stimulation

Dildo is the name for a substitute penis used for penetrative masturbation. A good dildo will provide you with hours of entertainment for when you’re going solo or even when you’ve got a partner to play with who know the ways to give you multiple orgasms. It’s well worth the money to spend and get a good one that’s going to last for a long time. You want to make sure that the surface is easily cleaned. Some of the latex ones had pores in them which made them very difficult to keep clean. There are some really cool gel dildos on the market these days. Check out your local love shop and see what they have to offer.

Warning: Care should always be taken when inserting any object into you. Excessive size or over enthusiastic movements can cause internal bruising or worse. Small objects or items that can break or shed parts can cause real problems, such as cutting or internal losses, both of which could require medical assistance to fix. Hygiene too has to be considered. Any germs on an inserted item are going to get into you and could cause infections of various types, it is often a good idea to place a condom over your chosen object. So be warned, if you want to insert something make sure it’s safe.

Whatever you choose to insert, it will technically be a dildo and for this reason I will just use the word dildo but you can read it as being whatever you have to hand (hair brush handle, carrot, candle etc..). First off, try to ensure your vagina is well lubricated, either with natural juices or some form of lubrication such as astroglide. Take it easy with the insertion, especially if the object you are using is larger than say a couple of fingers in diameter. Moving the dildo in and out gives a pleasant feeling but experiment with stirring actions and trying different angles of insertion. An angle where the head of the dildo is going to rub up the front wall of your vagina may be especially nice for you (it rubs on your ‘G’ spot). Working the dildo only takes one hand so it may be fun to use the other elsewhere, such as on your clitoris. This is the most likely way to have an orgasm as few women orgasm from vaginal stimulation only (though it is nice). It can also be fun to combine a dildo with a vibrator at this point as well, or perhaps invest in the type of dildo that also vibrates.

Female using Dildo to masturbate

As with all masturbation the key is to be comfortable. A few positions that may suit you include:

(a) Standing with one foot raised on something like a chair so that you can get access.
(b) Lying on the floor or on a bed with both legs drawn up and knees spread
(c) Kneeling with knees wide apart. This can be enhanced by having a soft chair to lean forward onto. If the dildo is long enough to touch the floor and be inside you at the same, this can be an especially nice position, as pelvic thrusts will move the shaft inside your vagina without you needing to use your hands at all leaning back against a wall with your legs spread.

Dildos can also be used externally to good effect, especially the softer latex/silicone types that are commercially available. To try this option grease up your dildo with plenty of lube, place it in a flat surface that you can straddle (pile of cushions, arm of a sofa, edge of a bath tub etc) and sit on it so that it runs the length of your vulva from clitoris to anus. Slide your body back and forth so that your weight pushes your clitoris and other sensitive parts down onto the shaft as it slides through between your labia majora, and slide to and fro. If this becomes tiring then hold the position, grab the end of the dildo that is sticking out the front and work it back and forth against yourself.

It is worth considering issues of dildo size, especially if you are going to spend on a commercial one. First don’t believe the myth that bigger is always better. The best is the one that suites you and that may be a long thin one, a short fat one or a long fat one (especially for those of us that have had children). You’re no less of a woman if you want a small one or more of one if you want a king-size tool. It should be kept in mind that narrower shafts are easier to insert and allow faster stroking, whereas thicker ones take more inserting and are usually harder to work in and out, though they do give a pleasant ‘stuffed’ sensation. The bottom line is be realistic in deciding what you need and what you can handle before you buy, unless you can afford a selection!

External Stimulation – using the dildo on the outside of your body is probably the easiest way to do things to start off with. Here are a couple of ideas to get you started, first of all apply some lube to the dildo and lay it flat on a hard chair. Then if you position yourself above it and sit down so that the dildo runs the full length from the crack of your ass all the way up to your clit and slide yourself back and forth on it. This will provide all kinds of stimulation.

Head – You can also use the head of the dildo, it’s shaped pretty much like the real thing, and rub it against your clitoris. By applying pressure and moving the head over your clitoris in an up and down or circular motion you can provide great stimulation to the clit. The more pressure you apply the faster you will come. On the other hand just using light pressure will take you longer to reach the climax but the result will be a more intense orgasm. For better control, you may find it easier to use two hands to grip the dildo.

Dildo on clit - female masturbation

Internal Stimulation – The dildo is a multipurpose kind of toy, it also does a wonderful job when inserted into the vagina as well. One of the things you need to consider is the size of your dildo; it doesn’t have to be a huge monster to be effective. Simply find one that is wide enough to be snug inside your vagina and longer than what you need to insert as you have to have something to hold onto. Find a comfortable position to be in while you play. Insert the dildo into your vagina and then begin moving it in an in and out fashion. Depth of the thrusts is entirely dependent on how you feel, and the sensation will be different at different depths. Once you’ve established a bit of a rhythm start rubbing or stroking your clitoris in time with the strokes. If you want something a little different try positioning the dildo so that when it moves in and out it will pull a bit and stimulate the clitoris that way.

Double Up – Dildos come in many shapes and flavors so you can get whatever you’d like. You might want to consider purchasing a dual dildo. This will enable you to insert one end into your vagina and the other end into your anus. This way you have double the thrusting pleasure while you stimulate your clit. You can also combine the use of a vibrator in one spot and a dildo in the other. If you were feeling adventurous you could place a vibrating butt plug in your anus and a vibrator in your vagina and stimulate your clit with your fingers. The combinations are only limited by your imagination.

Dildo doubleup - vagina and anus female masturbation

Alternate methods in female masturbation

Accessories – Some are other accessories that you would have lying around the house that can provide some interesting stimulation are pieces of furniture and cushions or pillows. An ottoman works nicely for example if you position yourself over it so that a corner of it pushes on your clitoris when you move back and forth. For an extra buzz, trying lifting your hands and feet off the ground when you cum. I haven’t personally tried this although it’s supposed to give you the
feeling of flying

Thigh Squeeze – There are women out there who can achieve orgasm by simply squeezing or rubbing their thighs together. This stimulates the clitoris indirectly. It would be a great skill to have, then if you were out in public and found yourself getting horny you could just take care of it by squeezing your thighs together, no one would be any the wiser, except maybe those people who are reading this. So the next time you see a woman with her legs crossing and perhaps kicking her foot to hide the fact that she’s grinding her thighs together you’ll have to wonder what she’s really doing.

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This technique will take a bit of practice to get it down to a fine art, but that’s half the fun of learning new stuff is the practice. When you masturbate at home, make it a habit to press your thighs together when you have an orgasm. After you’ve done this a few times it will become second nature to you. Once you’ve mastered this then try pressing your thighs together when you’re ready to orgasm and won’t be able to stop it but haven’t actually climaxed yet. Take your hands away and leave it to your legs to ride yourself over the top. This isn’t going to work instantly, you may have a few attempt that die painfully but eventually it will all come together and you will be pleased with the results. Sooner or later with the help of fantasy and association you should be able to proceed using only your thighs from earlier and earlier in the masturbation. Sounds like fun to me!

Thigh squeezing: Some women can achieve sexual pleasure — even orgasm — by simply squeezing or rubbing their thighs together, thus indirectly stimulating the clitoris. This technique can even be used in public! Without risk as there is nothing to show what you are doing and you can remain fully dressed! Long bus ride? Boring desk job or classroom? No problem!

Suggestions for getting started: When masturbating at home, make it a habit to press together your thighs when you orgasm. After that becomes second-nature, press your thighs when you can’t stop yourself from having an orgasm (but haven’t yet), and then pull your hands away — leave it up to your legs to ride yourself over the top. You’re bound to have a few frustrating flameouts, but the practice is worth it. Eventually, with the help of fantasy and association, you’ll be able to proceed using only your thighs from earlier and earlier in the masturbation process.

Some women seem to prefer “riding the seam” of jeans; others like the greater closeness of hose or bare legs under a skirt or dress. Experiment and find out what works best for you.

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These are some comments from my readers. “I just wanted to say that I have been one of those lucky ones who can cross her legs and come and I have an extra tip for those who like that exhibitionistic thrill of having an orgasm in public with all sorts of people around – this technique works much better when your bladder is full!. It increases the “inside pressure” on the clitoris. Beware though, after the orgasm, you really feel the need to pee!” “Rhythmically squeezing your thighs is intensely pleasurable, even if you don’t orgasm. And when you do……well, it is amazing. Especially if you are in a place where you could get caught!” “I am so sensitive I do not even wear pants, only skirts and dresses. I have to sit squeezing myself with my thighs to keep some control over the sensation when I sit down. It really is a problem to be turned on all of the time.”

Tickling vagina

Masturbation need not be a hurried thing. If you have plenty of time, the excitement can be built up to amazing levels, and orgasms made stronger, if you go really slowly and tease yourself to a climax. The secret of this is light stimulation rather than the direct/intense stuff discussed earlier. A few personally tested ways of doing this are given below.

Feather

A nice long quill, as long as it is clean, can be great fun. Apart from the flicking and brushing actions described above you can also enjoy a pulling the feather along your vulva like an extension of a single finger. As the feather is less susceptible dampness than a brush you don’t need to keep away from your vagina so much. The great thing is that as you get more aroused and feel like pressing on harder the feather simply flexes and so the level of stimulation stays the same.

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Makeup brush: The very large and super soft round headed brushes that are designed for putting on powder foundation make wonderful masturbation tools. First wash yourself well and dry your clitoris and vulva thoroughly. Then, spread out on the bed/floor so that your vulva is wide open. This is one technique where being shaved can be an advantage. With very light flicking strokes tickle your clitoris and inner lips with the bristles of the brush. Stay away from your vaginal entrance as it will probably be/become moist and this moistness will collect on the brush and spoil the delicate stimulation it gives. Important – after a while the sensitivity of your clitoris will increase and you will feel like finishing yourself off quickly. Don’t be tempted. The longer this stage lasts the greater the tension will be when you do cum and so the more explosive the climax. No matter how badly you want to drop the brush and finish yourself off quickly stick with the gentle flicking. It will get you there eventually and the journey is sooooo nice!!

Humping: Humping is thrusting your genitals against something hard or at least firm. Some examples of this include:
Sliding along the edge of the bath tub: Sitting on a pillow or cushion or similar and rocking the hips back and forth. Lying face down with something like a chair leg pressed up against your vulva. Thrusting up and down to cause your clitoris to rub on the leg. A nicely shaped leg, with ridges etc, can be very pleasurable.

Floor riding: Strip off and lie on the floor face down. It works best if you are shaved down there but it works if you are hairy too. Press your pubic bone into the floor as hard as you can and rock your body like you are trying to crawl but don’t work hard enough to actually move from the spot. The flesh on your pubis will be alternately pulled tight and made slack. This transmits to your clitoris through the outer lips and feels great after a minute or two. (Extra bonus – it is a good exercise for your waist too)

Cord: There is a range of techniques that all involve moving a cord or something similar back and forward along your vulva. Some examples:

Take a stocking or a pair of tights and hold the foot in one hand behind your back, let the fabric drape between your legs and hold the other end in your other hand at the front. The material should then be pulled up into the crotch so that it works into your vulva. Pulling it gently backwards and forwards causes it to stimulate your clitoris in a divine way. (PST: silk stockings are so much nicer than nylon for this!)

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Using a cord off a dressing gown or a length of ribbon in the same way as detailed above is also fun. If the ribbon is to be specially purchased for this sort of play, try and get one about an inch wide and a yard long. One with the little edge loops is also worth considering. If its an option, try oiling the material up before playing by rubbing a little lubricant along it’s length.

A long bead necklace or a synthetic pearl string can be great for this too. The knobs feel great as they slide by. Tie a cord/ribbon/etc between the backs of two chairs so that it is suspended at crotch height. Step across, position the cord along your vulva and walk back and forward.

Tennis Anyone? – This one was sent in to me by one of my readers and it’s so cool. “The way I have gotten myself off since as far back as I can remember, is by using a tennis ball. I lie on my stomach and place the ball between my legs pressing against my clitoris. My legs are together and crossed at the ankles. I then begin to squeeze my inner thighs together and work the ball in a humping motion so that it is pressing against my clitoris. As I climax I continue to squeeze with my thighs. This is a very quick way to get off and I usually get multiple orgasms this way.”

Panties for You? – This is another great suggestion from one of my readers. “All my life (after the very first time when I used the backside of a tablespoon) I’ve used my panties to masturbate. Basically I tug them up into my crack; both front and back, and then tug on the front just over my clitoral area. Positioning of the cloth is important- it needs to be spread rather evenly over the clit so it doesn’t become painful- and of course the cloth itself. I’ve torn up quite a few pairs of panties! There are some advantages to using panties. Tugging really creates a sensation of pushing against the clit, and around back the cloth is being pulled against the anus, stimulating it as well. The same applies to, say, masturbating with slacks or even jeans.”

Sexy panties also play important role if you are involved with another girl, try some tricks used by men to give oral to women.

Conclusion

As was stated at the beginning of the techniques section, there is no wrong way to masturbate. If you try something and it doesn’t work for you then I suggest you try another but don’t give up the first time you try. We live in a society that tells women that they must be missing out on something if they don’t achieve orgasm. That wraps up this little session on female masturbation techniques. I hope you enjoy trying them out.

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  1. onetimeerror says:

    I am 14 and a girl. My friend Ashley and me always hang out together and one day we did something that we shouldn’t of been ashamed about but yet we weren’t. We were in my basement and watching a movie. She rested her head my boob (I wasn’t wearing a bra). I acted like I didn’t notice until she looked at me kissed me (no tongue yet) and squeezed my boob. I didn’t know what to say, I’ve never been with a girl and neither has she. She took of my shirt and started sucking on my tits. I moaned alittle bit (no one was home). Then she unzipped my jean shorts and rubbed my pussy over my underwear. I got wet and she could definitely tell so she started eating me out. Finally, I took of her shirt and shorts. She started kissing me and this time hard her tongue went as far back as she could and it made me so fucking horny. She took of my underwear ever so slowly and really started to rub and all of a sudden her finger slipped in. It felt so good and i couldn’t help but do it back. This was one of the sexiest moment and we still do that to this day.

    1. Beautiful story. You just made me so hard.

  2. I was in the spa at night at the resort we are at, anyone could’ve walked in and caught me but I was alone otherwise with the jets going. I started leaning my pussy toward the water jets and it felt good but I needed more. I started rubbing my clit through my bathing suit and it was good…. So good when I started imagining my best friend being plundered by two guys at once while she ate me out! That sent me over the edge and before I knew it; I was cumming in a public spa, the warm water made it so much hotter and added to the orgasm. The thing is I didn’t have to imagine what it felt like to have her eat me out because she has done that once and it was amazing, and we used to make out and finger each other but after a while she wasn’t into that as much:( but the last time I was at her place we were drunk and stupid and she said we should fuck and started touching my boobs…… I then sort of taking advantage at that point in time guided her hand to my pussy and she said how wet I was and stuck her fingers deep inside me going hard and fast even though she was half asleep. She put more fingers in at once and I moaned at the ecstasy! I asked her if she would eat me out, but she kept saying she was too tired. I respected that but it took all of my strength not to strip and just sit on her face, she would’ve gone to it I think! Oh well next time we get drunk I am going to see if she will again I’m dying to get eaten out by her again? She’s a bit of a slut so she kinda does anything even when she’s sober haha

    1. Drinking alcohol is a great danger to susceptible people. I beg you to enjoy one another without it. I knew a woman so deep into denial of feelings of intimacy that she could not maintain anything like a loving, sharing relationship. She turned to alcohol rather than work out her difficulties. Now, she lies about virtually anything, must drink to enjoy a companion, and has blackouts of discussions that no healthy person would forget. Then also, alcohol is a CNS depressant and is toxic. If you do this in excess or if your personality type is susceptible, you will end up an alcoholic and/or with multiple organ damage or failure.
      To give an idea of the strength of alcohol addiction, another woman I knew was able to kick heroin and coke only to die still addicted to alcohol.
      Sorry for the downer but please enjoy sex without a crutch. It’s wonderful, a great gift to us and nothing to be ashamed of. Enjoy!

  3. wrongnails says:

    I have done that with a girl before. While her boyfrined was at the bar drunk as hell. She was beside me to let me finger her vagina. I m not lesbian but drinking made it all.

  4. sexkittenfun says:

    Well since like 2 days ago I started fingering myself and rocking myself like if I had a pennis beneath me and I get so horny so 2 days ago I started going to the couch at night to finger myself but the couch is so fluffy that I started to jump and rub my vagina to the couch and imagined I was on top of someone and I even did that on the arm rest… Long story short I get horny when I sit on the couch

  5. lostcarol3 says:

    Once, we went to watch a movie. We sat at the backmost row and started making out. i gave him a handjob and he fingered me. It felt so good, it made me feel more connected with him ever since. I really crave for his touch whenever he’s not around.

  6. watchergal says:

    I m watcher girl who like to peek into another bedroom. I never miss chance to see live sex. Till now I have seen over 23 couples having sex. I go to rooftop, using different tricks to check it out. I must say this is the best way to finger myself. I enjoy masturbating whenever i think about such incidents. The most favorite incident I must say could make you also finger. Me and my best friend were at her house for a sleep over. When we were playing some board game she said she was going to get something. I waited for 10 minutes and gotired of waiting and thought she had hurt herself or something. I heard moans coming from a room and I peaked in to see my best friend and her father having sex. It looked like she was enjoying it so much that I started playing with myself outside their room. I went back to my best friend’s room after 3 minutes and when she came back she apologized and we went back to our sleepover plans.

  7. प्यासी शगुफ्ता says:

    क्या चूत में ऊँगली डालने से सील टूटने का खतरा है?

  8. MushtaqHussain43 says:

    मुझे एक बुरी आदत है- हस्तमैथुनI मेरे दोस्त मेरा मज़ाक उड़ाते हैंI दरअसल, मैंने मौलवी से पूछा उन्होने कहा की ऐसे ख्याल आना इस्लाम मई हराम है, यह दोजक जाने का रास्ता है. पर उन्होने कोई सलूशन नहीं बताया. मेरे दिमाग में पूरे दिन सेक्स के ख्याल आते हैं…बहुत जी करता है लड़कियों के चुत चाटो उनको चोदो …कभी कभी तो बहनो और खालाओ पे भी नियत ख़राब हो जाती है…और जिस भी लड़की से मिलता हूँ, मेरा उसके साथ सेक्स करने का मन करता हैI क्या मुझे कोई दिमागी बीमारी हो गयी है?

  9. rosetta.p.maulner says:

    Guys why do you like fingering girls? I just wondered i know you do it to pleasure a girl but do you get a joy out of it ? just wondering. Even heard from girlfriends that some even lick those wet fingers. Finger licking good…huh hoooo 😉 😀 🙂 hooooo

  10. مسلم الحب says:

    انا ترددت كتير قبل ما اكتب التجربه , بس علشان انا عارف مدي اهمية الموضوع و مدي تأثيره كان لازم ان انا اكتب تجربتي عنه ( العادة السرية ) اسمها بيوصفها ( عادة ) لان الي بيعملها بيتعود عليها و بيفضل يعملها باستمرار , ( السرية ) لان مفيش حد بيعملها الا لما بيبقي لوحده و من هنا سميت بالعادة السرية . طيب انا هتكلم في تجربتي معاكم علي اجزاء , هنبدء بازاي اتعرفت علي العادة السرية , ثم ازاي تطور الموضوع معايا , ثم ازاي اثرت العادة السريه عليا , ثم ازاي قدرت الحمدلله ان انا اتخلص من العادة السرية . اولا : بدايتي مع العادة السرية مكنتش اعرف ايه هيا العاده السريه ولا اي حاجه عن الجنس الا بعد لما دخلت المرحله الاعداديه , نقدر نقول قبل كده كنت ابيض تماما , الموضوع بدء معايا من خلال ( اصدقاء السوء ) , اصدقاء مع بعض في المدرسه , بعد المدرسه بنخرج بنروح نقعد في سايبر محل فيه كزا كمبيوتر , كنا المفروض بنروح نلعب العاب كمبيوتر GTA , العاب عربيات , ريد اليرت , لحد اما في مره لقيت كزا واحد من اصدقائي فاتحين ( موقع اباحي ) ساعتها انا كنت مصدوم جدا من الي شايفه و من المنظر , وكرد فعل تلقائي اعترضت عليهم و ده لان والدتي مربياني تربيه محترمه مع العلم ( والدي مسافر للعمل في الخارج ) , المهم لقيت رد فعل من اصدقائي انت شكلك عيل تعبان و انت خواف و بتاع , و من هنا بدأت ان انا اندرج معاهم في الموضوع علشان اثبت ليهم و لنفسي ان انا مش خواف ( وده اكبر خطأ وقعت فيه ) , و بدأت ان انا كل ما نروح محل الكمبيوتر اتفرج معاهم علي صور اباحيه و افلام اباحيه و كنت برضه ساعتها معرفش ايه العاده السريه مجرد ان انا كنت بحس باستثاره من المشاهده . اول مره اجرب الموضوع كان فضول بالنسبه ليا و حب استطلاع عاوز اعرف ايه هيا ( العادة السرية ) و زي ما وضحت سرية فكنت بختلي بنفسي و بجرب الموضوع . ثانيا : تطور ( العاده السرية ) الموضوع تطور معايا من حب استطلاع و فضول الي ان مبقاش يعدي يوم الا لما اقوم بالعادة السرية , و علشان اعمل العاده السريه لازم اكون مستثير و ده من خلال مشاهده الصور الاباحيه او الافلام الاباحيه او حتي تخيل مشهد معين في خيالي . خلصت الفتره الاعداديه و خلصت الفتره الثانويه و انا كل يوم بعمل العاده السريه و ممكن توصل ان انا اعملها اكثر من مره في اليوم بقت شئ اساسي في حياتي مثل الماء و الهواء. بدأت ان انا ادخل علي المواقع الاباحيه سواء من محل الكمبيوتر او لما ابقي قاعد في البيت لوحدي . ثالثا : مخاطر و اضرار العادة السرية كان نفسي حد ينصحني بمشاكل العادة السرية سواء حد كبير او والدي قبل ما ادمنها لاكثر من 13 سنه بمارس الموضوع يوميا بمعني يوميا حياتي اتحولت من شخص منفتح الي شخص انطوائي حياتي مقفوله كلها حولين العادة السرية تفكيري متخد منه جزء كبير جدا لموضوع العاده السريه و مشاهده الافلام الاباحيه – دراستي بعد لما كنت بطلع من الاوائل في ابتدائي , بدأت ان مستويا يهبط بقيت حاسس ان تركيزي بيقل مش قادر اركز في المذاكره و ازداد الموضوع معايا في ثانوي و في الجامعه كمان . – صحيا كل الكلام الخاص بان العاده السريه بتسبب العمي و كسر الركب ده انا محصلش معايا تماما , وقرأت عنه انه غير صحيح علميا بالمره , رغم ان انا بمارسها بقالي سنين , و لكن الي حسيت بيه هو ( همدان الجسم باستمرار ) تحس كانك جسمك واقع كده و مفيش فيه صحه , الركب مش ماسكه نفسها و مع التقدم في السن و كثره الممارسه ساعات و انت بتمشي تحس كان ركبك سايبه بمعني الكلمه و تحس كانك هتقع , حاجه تانيه هيا البروستاتا الموضوع ظهر معايا لما كنت في الجامعه لما بدأت احس بالم في منطقة المثانه و لما كشفت لقيت عندي احتقان في البروستاتا و قالي الدكتور ان ده بسبب كثره ممارسه العاده السريه و ان انا لما كنت بعمل العاده كنت لما السائل هينزل كنت بمنعه علشان اطول مده الموضوع وده سببلي مشكله في البروستاتا و قعدت فتره كبيره اتعالج منها – من اكبر المشاكل الي حصلتلي بسبب العاده السريه و الي سببتلي مشاكل نفسيه بعد الزواج هو ان مكنتش حاسس في بدايه زواجي بالاستمتاع من العلاقه الجنسيه و ده بسبب ان انا كنت متعود ان الشعور ده بحسه و انا لوحدي , وكمان لما كنت بمارس العاده السريه كنت بحاول ان انا في بعض الاوقات انهي الموضوع بسرعه ( خوفا من ان حد يجي ) و الكلام ده هيعرفه الي مجرب الموضوع للاسف وده رغم ان انا بطلتها قبل الزواج بفتره بس برضه كان في تأثير , فمع زوجتي كان بيبقي عندي سرعه قذف و خروج السائل بسرعه وده كان مسبب مشكله ما بينا و الحمدلله اتعالجت من الموضوع بواسطه طبيب . – العامل النفسي اكثر حاجه اتأثرت فيها هو العامل النفسي , كنت دايما بحس ان انا معزول و ان انا حياتي كلها متعلقه في الموضوع ده , وان دايما عندي خوف , و علاقتي باسرتي كانت شبه مقطوعه والدتي و اخواتي في وادي و انا في وادي اخر . رابعا : علاج العادة السرية . – انا كنت حاسس ان انا عمري ما هتخلص منها , ما هو لما اقعد اكثر من 13 سنه بعمل حاجه يوميا , و مكذبش عليكم كنت بحاول دايما ان انا تخلص منها و لكن كنت بحل الموضوع بشكل خطئ فكنت ابطل يومين اربعه اسبوع و ارجع اعملها تاني , لحد ما الحمدلله توصلت لان انا قدرت اتغلب عليها و ابعد عن الموضوع تماما . اول حاجه لازم تعرفها ان ( العادة السرية ) هيا اسوء كابوس ممكن انك تعيشوا في حياتك و ان اضرارها الي انت مش هتحس بيها دلوقتي هتحس بيها قدام بس ساعتها هتبقي اتدمرت بمعني الكلمه و حياتك كلها اتدمرت بمعني الكلمه . فلازم تخد القرار من نفسك انك تتحداها و تبطل الموضوع نهائيا انا مش هتكلم علي الموضوع دينيا انه حرام او غيره , انا هتكلم علي انه حاجه بتقضي عليك و لازم تتخلص منها . اولا : كلامي ده للمسلمين لازم تتقرب من ربنا و تصلي , في شباب كتير هيقولوا ده كلام انشا و بتاع , اسمع مني بقي من واحد جرب حاجه الواحد مننا مهما كان بعيد عن ربنا بس بيبقي في حاجه جواه بتقول الحرام و الحلال و الصح و الخطأ و الخوف من ربنا , انت لما ترجع للصلاه و تبدء في الالتزام بالصلاه هتحس ان الايمان زاد من جواك و حبك لربنا و خوفك منه هيزيد جدا , لدرجه انك لو فكرت بس في انك تعملها هتبقي من حبك لربنا و خوفك منه هتبعد عنها , واحد هيقولي انا مش بعرف التزم بالصلاه لو صليت النهارده مش هصلي بكره و كده , هقوله الموضوع زيه زي ( العاده السريه ) , افهمني بس الترابط في ( العادة ) هنا انت اتعودت علي حاجه ادمنتها خلاص مبقتش قادر انك تبطلها بسهوله , زيها زي الصلاه لو جيت علي نفسك و قرصت نفسك انك تصلي مثلا لمده شهر كل يوم ال 5 صلوات , هقولك مبروك انت من بعد الشهر ده هتلاقي نفسك بمجرد ما الاذان هيأذن عقلك هيحرك جسمك مباشره ناحيه الوضوء و سجادة الصلاه , يعني هتقعد في الاول بتجاهد نفسك في الصلاه و بعد كده هتستمع بحلاوه الصلاه , طيب ايه علاقه الصلاه بان انا هبطل العادة السريه , هقولك تاني , اولا انت هتبقي بتتوضي 5 مرات في اليوم , و زي ما احنا عارفين العاده السريه بتبطل الوضوء , فانت هتبقي محافظ علي نفسك نضيف و لو فكرت فيها مش هتبقي عاوز تعملها و تاني حاجه ان الايمان جواك هيزيد فهتخاف انك تعملها علشان عارف ان ربنا شايفك و هتتكسف من نفسك . ثانيا : متقعدش لوحدك بالله عليك ما تقعد لوحدك اوعي تقعد لوحدك , اساس العاده السريه في كلمه السريه في اننا بنبقي قاعدين لوحدنا عمرك ما هتعملها و في حد موجود , لازم بتبقي لوحدك و مختلي بنفسك , فانت لما تشغل وقتك و تبقي مع ناس و حتي لو شديت علي نفسك في الاول هتبعد عنها غصب عنك و مش بمزاجك و ده هيساعدك انك تبعد عنها تماما . ثالثا : العب رياضه انزل الجيم , الواحد مننا و خاصه في فتره الشباب بيبقي عنده طاقه رهيبه لو انت مش بتلعب رياضه مش هتلاقي حاجه تخرجها فيها الا في موضوع العاده السريه , اما لو مارست رياضه نزلت روحت الجيم هتطلع الطاقه ديه في الرياضه , مش عاوز تروح الجيم العب في البيت ضغط العب عقله انزل اتمشي بهروله بسرعه المهم تطلع طاقتك . رابعا : اتجوز ايوا زي ما سمعت كده لو قادر انك تتزوج اتزوج لو عندك 19 سنه و قادر علي الزواج تزوج , مش هدخل في جزء ديني برضه و مش هقول عن حديث الرسول صلي الله عليه و سلم ( من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج ) , انا بقولك حاجه مجربه متعة الجنس ديه حاجه ربنا وجدها فينا علشان النسل و نعمر الدنيا و متعه بس بالحلال , فلو تقدر انك تتزوج امبارح قبل النهارده توكل علي الله فورا . خامسا : الصوم هو مكنتش بجربها بصراحه كتير بس سمعت النصيحه من حديث الرسول ايضا و جربته و لقيت ان فعلا طوال فتره الصوم كان في حاجه جوايا بتمنعي اني اعملها تمامااااااا بس طبعا كان الشيطان بيغلبني في بعض الاحيان و بعملها باقي اليوم بعد الصيام بس الموضوع ساعدني برضه ان بقيت اصوم الصبح و بليل ابقي مشغول او اخرج فبقيت اتحكم في الموضوع . سادسا : وده عامل مهم اوي اوي اوي ( ابعد عنك اي حاجه تثيرك ) هتقولي ازاي ! هقولك المواقع الاباحيه نزل علي الكمبيوتر برنامج من برامج اغلاق المواقع الاباحيه زي Antiporn بتحمل البرنامج عندك و خلي اي حد عندك الي يبقي معاه كلمه السر و متعرفهاش انت بس ظبط الاعدادات بشكل صحيح و بس كده , مش هتعرف تفتح اي موقع اباحي علي الكمبيوتر ولو حاولت تحذفه او تعدله البرنامج هيطلب الباسورد وهو مش معاك , ولو انت عرفت في مره تحذفه المره الي بعديها هتكسل و مش هتعرف , حاول متتفرجش علي التلفزيون القنوات الي فيها عري او الافلام الاجنبيه لان كل ده هو الي هيدفعك انك تعملها و مع الوقت هتقدر انك تتحكم في نفسك تماما . سادسا : ما بعد التخلص من العادة السرية . – كفايه الراحه النفسيه الي انت هتحس بيها في انك مش بتعمل حاجه غلط , الاحساس ده لوحده حاجه لا توصف , هتحس انك مرتاح من جواك و مبسوط . – علاقتي بالي حوليا اتحسنت كتير جدا لان انا علي عكس الاول مكنتش بخرج كتير وعلشان ابطلها بقيت انزل و اخرج و ازور ده و ده و انزل الجيم فاتعرفت علي اصدقاء كتير كويسين و ده حسن علاقتي بالناس . – الزواج فرق معايا لاول مره كنت احس ان انا باستمتع بالموضوع في الحلال و انا مش خايف من حد و وانا عارف ان ربنا مش غضبان عليا . – صحتي اتحسنت كتير جسمي شد و خاصه مع الجيم , جسمي بقي ماسك نفسه كده و صحتي بقت كويسه , لان انا اكتشفت ان العاده السريه بكثره بتخد من فيتامينات في الجسم و ده لا اعلم مدي صحته , بس الي حسه لا ان صحتي بقت احسن كتير .

  11. Sumeira Tawil says:

    الاستمناء، أحد أكثر المواضيع جدلاً بين الناس، تلك العادة السرية التي يقوم بها كل البالغين حول العالم، يدور حولها أسئلة كثيرة في أذهاننا، سنحاول في هذا المقال الإجابة على أكثر الأسئلة جدلاً حول الاستمناء. – ما هو الاستمناء؟ الاستمناء هو التحفيز الشخصي أو الذاتي للأعضاء التناسلية لتحقيق الإثارة والمتعة الجنسية والوصول إلى النشوة الجنسية (الذروة الجنسية). وعادة ما يتم ذلك عن طريق لمس وتدليك وتمسيد الأعضاء التناسلية الذكرية منها والأنثوية، وتلجأ بعض النساء أحياناً لاستخدام بعض الألعاب الجنسية كالهزاز وغيرها لتحفيز الأعضاء

  12. cutestmarie851 says:

    🙂 Pour moi, il n’y a pas d’âge pour se toucher. Même des bébés de les petits enfants le font, c’ets instinctif, ils découvre leur corps et lorsqu’ils voient que c’ets agréable, ils continuent. C’est donc un comportement tout à fait naturel, instinctif et innocent car ces enfants n’ont pas d’arrières-pensées. J’ai constaté grâce à un sondage sur la masturbation féminine, que beaucoup de filles ne commencent que vers 11-12-13 ans, donc au début de la puberté. Pour ma part, j’ai commencé à 6 ans! OUI, je ne mens pas, je sais que ça peux paraître étonnant. Mais c’est vrai kaola:{} On va dire que j’ai découvert ça par hasard, sous la douche plus précisément, j’avais mis le jet de douche au niveau de mon clitoris, et j’avais trouvé ça agréable. Et puis j’ai recommencé, je le faisais sous la douche. Ensuite, j’ai essayé le soir dans mon lit, en mettant un peu de salive pour me toucher le clitoris… On peux donc commencer très jeune, et sachez que le plaisir s’accentue à la puberté.

  13. Zahid Akram says:

    Is masturbation haraam? In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness for all muslim brothers and sisters. We all in islam are following right path. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers. Zina (fornication and adultery) is amongst the kabaair (grave) sins of Islam; for which Allah and His Messenger (saws) has ordained 80 lashes as punishment for fornication and capital punishment for the sin of adultery! These are only the punishments for the sin in this worldly life, and the punishment of one who commits these grave sins and dies without repentance, is much greater in the Hereafter! The act of masturbation is prohibited in Islam, and must be avoided by the believers. But just to put it into perspective,the sin of masturbation is not as grave as the sin of zina (adultery or fornication). But it definitely is a sin, and an evil act,and must be avoided by the believers. GREATEST WORDS ONLY FOR MUSIMS: Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter24 Surah Noor verse 30:O Prophet, enjoin the believing men to restrain their gaze,and guard their private parts. This is a more righteous way for them. Allah has knowledge of whatever they do. Allah has commanded the believers to lower their gaze, and guard their chastity. This is a more righteous way for them.The act of zina (fornication or adultery) is a great sin in Islam. The Prophet(saws) warned us against committing zina of the eyes, zina of the feet, zina of the hands, etc. If ones eyes are constantly watching sexual movies, magazines, etc. it would be considered zina of the eyes. If one goes to the place to commit zina or to the place of sexual movies, magazines, etc., it would be considered zina of the feet. Similarly, the act of masturbation, could be considered a zina of the eyes, or hands, etc. It is a sin and an evil act, and must be avoided by the believers. It has been reported in an authentic narration, that the Messenger of Allah (saws) said, “O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty; and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.” Thus if one is unable to control his sexual desire, he should get married, rather than get involved in committing sins likemasterbation and zina (fornication or adultery). And if one is unable to marry, he should fast, as the Messenger of Allah (saws) says, that fasting reduces the persons sexual desire, and thus will stay away from committing sin. Under no circumstances can the sin of masturbation be permitted! But if one finds himself in a situation, where he has been swayed by his emotions and finds himself in a situation whereby he is absolutely unable to control himself from the sin of actual zina and the only options left with him is the choice between zina or masturbation, then the scholars have opined that in such circumstances, where the person is absolutely unable to resist himself and avoid committing the sin of zina; he should opt for the smaller of the two sins (masturbation). But again, we reteriate, that both, masturbation and zina are sins in Islam; and one should not put himself in a situation whereby he is compelled by his emotions to disobey and transgress the boundaries set by Allah and His Messenger (saws). GREATEST WORDS ONLY FOR MUSIMS: Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa verse 32:Do not even go near zina, for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way! Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 25 Surah Furqaan verses 68-71:(The true servants of the Merciful are those) who do not invoke any god but Allah; nor kill a soul unjustly, which GREATEST WORDS ONLY FOR MUSIMS: Allah has forbidden; nor commit zina. He who does this shall be punished for his sin, and his torment shall be doubled on the Day of Resurrection and he shall abide in a state of ignominy. Except the one who may have repented (after those sins) and have believed and done righteous deeds; for then Allah will change his evil deeds into good deeds. He is very Forgiving and Merciful. In fact, the one who repents and does righteous deeds, returns to Allah as one rightly should. Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verses 17-18:Note it well that Allahs acceptance of repentance is for those people only, who commit an evil in ignorance, and then repent of it soon after. Allah again turns kindly to such people, for Allah is All Knowing, All Wise. But there is no repentance for those people who persist in their evil deeds until the dying hour comes to anyone of them; then he says, Now I repent!. Nor is repentance for them who die as unbelievers. For such people, We have prepared a painful torment. Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

  14. SCIENTISTFRANK says:

    Science de la masturbation. La masturbation, au même titre que l’acte sexuel, permet de se détendre. C’est un fait . Le relâchement s’explique par la libération de l’endorphine. Une hormone du plaisir qui apporte un sentiment de relaxation et de bien-être. S’octroyer un moment de plaisir solitaire permet de relacher les tensions physiques aussi bien que psychologiques.

  15. NotyCamiliaRhodes says:

    Alors tamisez les lumières, allumez quelques bougies et mettez-vous au lit (ou là où vous vous sentez la plus à l’aise) pour explorer votre corps. Voici 13 raisons de se masturber régulièrement quand on est une femme : ———– 1. On se sent plus heureuse… “Nous savons que le plaisir rend les gens heureux”, explique Mme Streicher. C’est aussi simple que ça. Les orgasmes libèrent des endorphines, la dopamine et l’ocytocine, qui nous rendent de meilleure humeur et nous transportent sur un nuage. Aux paradis artificiels, préférez le plaisir au naturel! ———– 2. … et mieux dans sa peau Il est essentiel d’être à l’aise dans son corps : c’est une des seules choses qui ne nous quittera pas de toute notre vie. Une manière d’entretenir d’excellents rapports passe par son exploration méthodique. “Il est absolument essentiel que les femmes aient une bonne connaissance de leur corps et de la façon de se donner du plaisir”, ajoute-t-elle. C’est l’heure des travaux pratiques ———– 3. La masturbation peut améliorer notre vie sexuelle… La masturbation permet d’explorer son corps et de découvrir ce qui nous procure le plus de plaisir. Elle peut donner de l’assurance au lit et vous aider à faire part à votre partenaire de ce que vous souhaitez. Une fois que vous avez compris ce qui vous fait du bien, vous pouvez lui dire où vous voulez être caressée. ———– 4. … nous aider à mieux dormir… Pourquoi tombons-nous généralement dans les bras de Morphée après nous être tordues de plaisir? Parce que les orgasmes dissipent les tensions émotionnelles et physiques et épuisent le corps, ce qui aide à s’endormir plus rapidement. “On dort souvent mieux après s’être masturbée, parce qu’on se sent détendue et comblée”, indique Mme Streicher. La masturbation provoque la somnolence, comme le fait de lire avant de s’endormir: on se sent plus calme et détendue après! ———– 5. … et à relâcher la tension sexuelle en se faisant du bien Si on a choisi de ne pas faire l’amour, ou qu’on est dans une période d’abstinence involontaire, la masturbation est un moyen très efficace de satisfaire sa libido. ———– 6. La masturbation peut réduire les douleurs physiques, y compris menstruelles “Si votre utérus se contracte quand vous vous masturbez et que cette contraction facilite l’écoulement du sang menstruel… cela permet en théorie de diminuer les crampes”, remarque Mme Streicher. Elle souligne néanmoins que les études qui permettent de valider cette théorie sont encore rares, mais ne voit aucune raison de ne pas se masturber pendant les règles: “Ça ne fait jamais de mal. Alors, si ça vous soulage, ne vous en privez pas.” C’est carrément plus sympa qu’un coussin chauffant… ———– 7. Elle déstresse “Tout ce qui permet de se détendre après une dure journée, que ce soit une séance de yoga ou un massage des pieds, relève de la même démarche”, explique Mme Streicher. “Ça ne passe pas forcément par la sexualité, mais le sexe et la masturbation sont des moyens très efficaces de se déstresser.” Une méthode qui fait envie! ———– 8. Elle permet à notre corps de rester sexuel… même quand on n’a pas de rapports “Si vous êtes entre deux partenaires, la masturbation permet non seulement d’entretenir l’élasticité et la bonne santé des tissus, et d’augmenter la pression sanguine, mais aussi une bonne hygiène mental”, ajoute Mme Streicher. “Nous savons que le sexe et l’excitation naissent dans le cerveau. Plus on fait l’amour et plus on a envie de faire l’amour parce qu’on y pense plus souvent. Quand on n’a pas eu de rapports depuis très longtemps, la plupart du temps, on n’y pense même plus.” ———– 9. Il y existe pleins de jouets cools pour nous aider à prendre du plaisir Des vibromasseurs mains libres aux faux bâtons de rouge à lèvres, il y a un vibro pour chacune d’entre nous! ———– 10. Quand on est en couple, c’est une manière très agréable de varier les plaisirs, et d’entretenir sa libido Comme le fait remarquer Mme Streicher, plus on fait l’amour, plus on en a envie. En toute logique, plus on se masturbe et plus on est à l’aise avec sa sexualité, plus on aura envie de son ou de sa partenaire. “Nous savons que la masturbation stimule la zone de notre cerveau qui entretient la libido”, indique la chercheuse. ———– 11. Ca. Donne. De. Multiples. Orgasmes. Comprendre la façon dont son corps fonctionne permet de savoir précisément comment lui faire du bien. Une fois, deux fois, trois fois… Tout dépend de notre appétit ! L’orgasme est généralement un aboutissement pour les hommes, mais les femmes peuvent jouir plusieurs fois de suite. Alors pourquoi s’en priver ? ———– 12. Il n’y a pas d’effets négatifs La masturbation n’a “strictement aucun effet négatif”, explique Mme Streicher. “Cette activité ne présente aucun inconvénient: on ne peut rien attraper, on ne tombe pas enceinte, on n’a pas de nausées. C’est le seul vice qui ne s’accompagne d’aucune répercussion négative.” ———– 13. C’est tout simplement délicieux. Je n’ai rien à ajouter. Faites de la place dans votre emploi du temps pour des petites séances intimes!

  16. Gulfam Siddiqui A Proud Muslim says:

    Muslim men and women burn in hell for masturbation. According to the opinion of the majority of scholars, masturbation is prohibited [haram] and it is impermissible to practice it except when there is a necessity through which a Muslim may encounter physical or religious harm. This includes the physician’s advice to practice masturbation for a certain time. Scholarly opinions ———— The Hanafis Hanafi scholars have stated that it is prohibited [haram] to masturbate via any means other than the hand of one’s spouse unless there is an excuse. Some scholars from among the Hanafis maintained that masturbation is undesirable [makruh]. These include: The Hanafi scholar, Ibn Nujaim who said in Al-Bahr al-Ra’iq SharhKanz al-Daqa’iq (vol.2, p.293), “It is mentioned in the collection of fatawa Al-Walwaljiya that there is no harm [in masturbating] if one only seeks to relieve sexual desire (i.e. excessive sexual desire that distracts a person from religious and worldly matters). Also if one is spouseless or has a spouse, yet it is difficult to reach her/him due to certain circumstances. This opinion is also stated in Al-Siraj Al-Wahaj.” Shafi’i, Maliki and Hanbali scholars have stated that masturbation is prohibited [haram]. However, the Hanbalis stated that it is permissible when there is a necessity. The previous Grand Mufti of Egypt Sheikh Mohammed Hassanien Makhlouf issued a fatwa that was published in al-Azhar magazine (Vol. 3, Muharram 1391 A.H, p.91). The fatwa included the following: It is evident that the majority of scholars agreed that masturbation is prohibited and this opinion is supported by the fact that it poses serious harm to nerves and physical and mind health and this calls for its prohibition. There are various means that help one to refrain from practicing masturbation: These include: ————-The most important is hastening to seek marriage as soon as possible while maintaining simplicity and avoiding excessiveness and complications. ————-Moderation in food and drink which contribute to stimulating sexual desire. In this regard, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) recommended fasting as per his words, “O young men, whoever from among you can afford it, let him get married, for verily it is a means to lowering one’s gaze and protecting one’s chastity. And whoever cannot, let him fast, for it will be a shield for him.” ————-Refraining from anything that arouses sexual desire such as listening to immoral songs and watching lewd images which are available in abundance in movies. ————-Directing one’s aesthetic faculties to permissible channels such as painting flowers and nature scenery which do not arouse sexual lust. ————-Choosing righteous pious companions. ————-Occupying oneself with worship in general. ————-Avoiding submitting oneself to sexual thoughts and instead merging in the community by engaging in activities that distract oneself from thinking about sex

  17. La masturbation a longtemps été taboue. On croyait même qu’elle causait la surdité! Heureusement, toutes ces croyances se sont révélées fausses, et nous voilà même à prôner ses bienfaits. Voici donc dix raisons de s’y adonner pleinement! ———— Elle accentue le plaisir à deux ———— La masturbation en duo peut être très excitante, et c’est aussi une façon de mieux connaître le ou la partenaire. Guidez sa main vers des caresses qui vous stimulent. C’est une excellente façon de démontrer à l’autre comment vous aimez être caressée! ———— Elle aide à diminuer le stress ———— Lors de la masturbation, le cerveau sécrète des endorphines qui réduisent l’état de nervosité. Ces hormones sont multipliées lors de l’orgasme, ce qui entraîne un relâchement musculaire qui accentue la sensation de détente. La masturbation est donc un allié non négligeable de la « zénitude »! ———— Elle améliore la connaissance de soi ———— Le plaisir solitaire est nécessaire à la connaissance de soi. Voici le parallèle que je mentionne souvent : c’est en se cuisinant une variété de pâtes que nous finissons par savoir que nous préférons les carbonara! En d’autres mots, c’est en expérimentant différentes caresses que vous allez découvrir ce qui vous stimule sexuellement. Si vous ne le savez pas, comment le partenaire peut-il le savoir? ———— Elle favorise le sommeil ———— Plusieurs avouent pratiquer la masturbation avant le coucher parce qu’elle favorise le sommeil. C’est encore une fois grâce aux endorphines qui agissent comme un somnifère naturel. Alors, vous souffrez d’un sommeil agité ou d’insomnie? Voici une belle façon de rendre l’utile à l’agréable! ———— Elle multiplie le plaisir ———— Entre nous mesdames, vous arrive-t-il parfois de rester un peu sur votre appétit après une relation sexuelle? La joie de la masturbation est, entre autres, d’être en mesure d’avoir autant d’orgasmes qu’on le désire. Le pouvoir multiorgasmique est illimité en solo! ———— Elle est bonne pour la santé ———— La masturbation stimule le rythme cardiaque, ce qui est totalement bénéfique pour le corps! Certaines études mentionnent qu’il peut même augmenter sa cadence jusqu’à 65 % de sa capacité, ce qui est l’équivalent d’une marche rapide! Et si vous avez tendance à contracter vos muscles pendant la masturbation, vous avez presque l’entraînement complet! Presque… ———— Elle est parfaite pour les gens pressés ———— D’après certaines statistiques, il faut en moyenne quatre minutes aux femmes pour atteindre l’orgasme lors de la masturbation. Vous vous sentez stressée, dépassée, et avez besoin de décompresser? Accordez-vous donc un petit quatre minutes de bonheur. ———— Elle agit comme un analgésique ———— C’est encore une fois grâce à l’endorphine! L’hormone sécrétée lors de la masturbation aide à calmer les douleurs reliées à la migraine et aux crampes menstruelles. À vous de choisir si vous préférez la Tylenol ou le plaisir en solo! ———— Elle améliore la sexualité masculine ———— Les hommes ayant tendance à avoir une éjaculation rapide peuvent utiliser la masturbation pour apprendre à contrôler leur excitation. Seuls, ils ont moins d’anxiété de performance, et prennent connaissance de leur corps, apprennent à mieux respirer, et maîtrise mieux leur mécanisme sexuel. ———— Elle aide à prévenir le cancer de la prostate ———— Certaines études mentionnent que plus les hommes éjaculent entre 20 et 50 ans, moins ils ont un risque de développer un cancer de la prostate. La masturbation diminuerait l’accumulation de liquide séminal dans les canaux prostatiques, et préviendrait les risques de cancer.

  18. Aabidah Bagheri says:

    Masturbation is islam. The position for muslims is based on the meaning that guarding one’s private parts could imply from his or her own self (masturbation). A similar subject that we often hear is haram is oral sex, yet once again there are no clear commands referring to oral sex being haram. The Prophet taught us that only two sexual acts are haram: anal sex and sex during menstruation. If the Prophet got that explicit and did not mention oral sex or masturbation, then perhaps these acts were left unsaid as they require interpretation based on context. Allah knows best. Islamically, there are different positions and it is not correct to make an absolute claim that masturbation is haram in all cases. I suggest you do more research on the Islamic positions as there are many. In some cases, masturbation is permissible and can be a lesser of two evils, such as committing zina versus masturbation. This was the position of Ahmad ibn Hanbal and Ibn Qayaam al Jazawi, for example. Thus, it is based on circumstances. I personally believe that masturbation is not haram, and in our times of pornography, highly sexualized stimuli and zina being so accessible in some societies, masturbation can be a way to protect many young people. If you take the position that masturbation is permissible, then take heed of the following points: 1 –—– Like anything, too much of something can be damaging. Do not overindulge or make it a habit to such a degree that you become dependent on it. It can become an addiction, and some people feel angry and frustrated unless they masturbate daily due to its pleasurable release. It can have the same dependency on a drug. 2 –—– Do not masturbate with other items that are clearly haram like pornography. 3 –—– Masturbation between spouses is not considered masturbation. Rather this is a type of foreplay when partners touch or excite using one another’s private parts. Again, married partners are allowed to do whatever they want to meet sexual needs as long as it is consenting between the two of them and is not one of the two forbidden acts clearly stipulated by the Prophet, peace be upon him. 4 –—– I’m unaware of the research you mentioned in your question, but I have read by Ibn Qayum al Jawazi in his book (the prophetic medicine) that release of semen is healthy and should not be avoided for long periods of time as it can affect moods negatively and helps promote stronger semen. Of course, one must research current medical findings as well and not base positions on medical sciences of the past. 5 –—– In Islam, some scholars take the position that in difficult situations where one fears zina or cannot marry, it is permissible to masturbate. We should also fast when possible, but this does not mean fasting and masturbating cannot be used together to protect oneself from zina and using pornography. Note that masturbation does break your fast, hence you cannot do both at the same time but can alternate if your condition is severe and requires both. 6 –—– Acknowledge that many Islamic positions were crystallized centuries ago and sometimes the issues are not re-addressed in the current context. Hence, one should seek knowledge and research not only the positions of past but contemporary views as well, since times and conditions change. May Allah help you,

  19. xxxplaygal says:

    Nicht für Frauen :(. Ja, in der amerikanischen Caephilly Cohort Study mit über 1000 Männern wurde herausgefunden, dass Männer mit vielen Orgasmen länger leben. Hierbei ist es den Medizinern im British Medical Journal jedoch nicht gelungen zu beweisen, dass die geringere Sterblichkeit auch wirklich mit der sexuellen Aktivität zusammen hängt. Auch andere Faktoren können hier eine Rolle gespielt haben.

  20. CatwomanHannak says:

    stupidddddddddddd. Es gibt eine Online-Gruppe von Menschen auf Reddit, die einander unterstützen um nicht zu masturbieren.

  21. AnnaXvenus says:

    Solange man durch Masturbation nicht in seinem Alltagsleben eingeschränkt ist und nicht zum Beispiel sein Arbeitsleben oder Freundeskreis dafür vernachlässigt, ist auch häufiges Masturbieren vertretbar. Man sollte die Häufigkeit reduzieren, wenn durch Selbstbefriedigung Schmerzen oder Verletzungen entstehen, wenn man einen ständigen Drang entwickelt haben sollte und an nichts Anderes mehr denken kann und dadurch Beziehungsprobleme entstehen.

  22. I Schmidt says:

    NO MASTURBATION —- Nein, häufiger Sex in einer gesunden Beziehung, der für beide Partner angenehm ist, wirkt sich nicht negativ auf Potenz aus. Wenn jedoch Ängste, psychischer Druck oder Stress mit dem Geschlechtsverkehr in Verbindung stehen, kann es durchaus dazu kommen, dass der Penis dauerhaft nicht steif wird, z.B. wenn der Mann ständig Versagensängste hat und glaubt, den Ansprüchen seiner Partnerin nicht zu genügen. Ärzte sprechen von erektiler Dysfunktion (Impotenz), wenn ein Mann zwar sexuell erregt ist, die Erektion des Penis jedoch nicht ausreicht, um Geschlechtsverkehr zu haben. Die fehlende oder nicht ausdauernde Erektion kann körperliche und psychische Ursachen haben. Die häufigste körperliche Ursache sind Herz-Kreislauf-Erkrankungen, die vor allem bei älteren Männern zu erektiler Dysfunktion führen. Bei jüngeren Männern überwiegen vor allem die psychischen Ursachen. Hier sind die Probleme also Kopfsache. Einer Studie des Journal of Sexual Medicine zufolge, ist jeder vierte Mann unter 40 Jahren von Erektionsproblemen betroffen. Bei Männern über 40 ist der Anteil noch höher.

  23. Emma Müller says:

    Masturbieren ist gut für die Verbesserung der sexuellen Ausdauer, da man allein und mit sich selbst lernt seinen Körper zu verstehen und ihn besser zu kontrollieren. Männer mit guter Laune haben einen Gedächtnis Vorbehalt gegen Masturbation – sie können sich nicht an das letzte Mal erinnern.

  24. Claudia G says:

    Masturbation ist eine der häufigsten sexuellen Aktivitäten, aber oft auch stark stigmatisiert. Die meisten Menschen haben zum einen oder anderen Zeitpunkt in ihrem Leben masturbiert, würden es aber auf Grund von sozialen Normen oder religiöser Werte wegen, nicht zugeben. Das Internet bietet hier großartige Möglichkeiten für Menschen zu fragen, Antworten zu finden und Informationen über dieses Tabu-Thema zu teilen. Fakten über weibliche Masturbation: . Laut einer Studie von 2002, masturbierten 44 Prozent der Studentinnen (USA) im Durchschnitt 4,7-mal pro Monat. . Speichel als Gleitmittel bei der Masturbation zu verwenden bietet sich nicht an, da die darin enthaltenen Bakterien die Vaginalflora zerstören und Hefepilz-Infektionen verursachen können. . Der Vibrator wurde von einem Arzt erfunden, um Hysterie zu heilen. So sollte das Gerät anstelle der Hand des Arztes für einen Orgasmus benutzt werden. . Frauen, die einen höheren Testosteronspiegel haben, sind eher geneigt zu masturbieren. In Japan ist es illegal, Sex-Spielzeug in Penisform herzustellen. Deshalb wurde dort der Vibrator in Form eines Häschens erfunden. Menschen sind nicht die einzige Art die masturbieren; Vögel, Pferde, Affen, Delphine und andere Tiere masturbieren auch. . Masturbation kann helfen, verschiedene Arten von Schmerzen, einschließlich Menstruationsbeschwerden und Kopfschmerzen zu lindern. Es gibt drei Arten von weiblichen Orgasmus: klitoral, vaginal, und eine Kombination von beiden. Nur 20% aller Frauen kommen rein vaginal zum Höhepunkt. . Das durchschnittliche weibliche Orgasmus dauert 20 Sekunden.

  25. गौहर बानो says:

    यह चुत मुझे जीने नहीं देती और चुदाई मुझे मार देती है … कभी कभी सोचती हूँ इस तरह से चुत मे करना हराम है पर क्या करो मेरी चुत की आग मिटती ही नहीं बहुत कोशिश करती हूँ अल्लाह से माफ़ी भी मांगती हूँ पर फिर भी कुछ नहीं कर पाती खुद को रोक नहीं पाती मुझे चुदाई नहीं पसंद क्योकि मुझे उतना मज़ा नहीं आता मुझे गंदे बाते याद करते अपने हाथ से करना पसंद है … गोल गोल घूमना और और फिर अंदर ब्रश को डालना … हाथ से करते हुए जो सोच सकती हूँ वह असल ज़िन्दगी मे कभी नहीं मिलेगा इसलिए मुझे यह अच्छा लगता है पर क्या यह हराम है कोई मुझे अच्छी तरह से समझायेगा की जो कर रही हूँ वह गलत है या सही क्या पराये मर्दो को और वह भी काफिरों को याद कर के इस तरह से चुत के साथ खेलना नाजायज़ है हराम है जिसको हिंदी या उर्दू आती हो वह मुझे जरूर हेल्प करे. शुक्रिया गौहर बानो

  26. Do they need to be stark naked in order to masturbate? I think they should at least leave their underwear on, and apparently some do. I think they should look sexy whilst they’re at it. I think they can look sexy by wearing stockings or suspenders.

    Anyway, please visit https://twitter.com/JeremyKeller9 and check, for example, my BBC link pertaining to the largest known mountain.

  27. ولعق غيره من الممارسات الضارة

  28. Svetalana says:

    Deméritos de la masturbación?

  29. रेहाना शेख says:

    जब ऊँगली करती हु तो बहुत मज़ा आता है पर ऊँगली करने के बाद बहुत जलन सी होने लगती है कोई उपाय बताओ |

  30. Heather Williams says:

    catherine …Who told you so. masterbation isn’t the sin; it’s the impure thoughts that are the sins. do not be guilty its fine you should enjoy your body. To come out of guilt I advice you to treat yourself a third girl. Imagine yourself as if you are talking to a third girl (which is you) now do this – here her is you and she is also you ****** examine her thought life. she should “take every thought captive” as the bible warns us to, so she doesn’t become a slave to that sin. it might be helpful to read some great chapters about being freed from sin, like romans (i think chapters 4-8), romans 12… remind her that our body is the temple of God, where God’s spirit lives! if we could see God on a little videocamera, would we be continuing in secret sins? “walk in the spirit” means continuously live every day like a changed, transformed person. that’s the power of jesus christ– to give us victory. God designed sex between a man and a woman, and his standard is that we use his gift of sex in marriage. I hope this helps. God bless. Please know that we’ve all fallen short of God’s glory in word, thought or deed. Stay away from bad thoughts, books and porn. Stop friendshiping with dirty naughty girls.

  31. Catherine says:

    i m adult Christian guilty of thinking about pathetic imaginations. i know I am not a good girl. i m very very very bad. i think of dirty things. i think of sex with ghosts, animals, aliens and gory creatures. i need to come out as if i am spelled by evil spirits to think so. i know i am. i really pray for a better will against the sexual temptation that the devil puts forth in my life. the devil is so evil i hate demons and bad spirits they are liars no good.sin and the devil spirits want to control my life but i pray against it every filthy demonic thought to leave i really do mean this from the bottom of my heart. i cannot continue masturbating thinking about dirty things. i have become vampiress of masturbation. only god can save me.

  32. Sonia Florique says:

    I ‘ve typical problem which makes hell out of sex life. I never enjoyed it. Even tried to change boy friends. Still same problem. I’ve been sexually active for just over a year now, but i’ve never had an orgasm, ever. I’ve gotten into this bad habit of faking one, because i cant bring myself to come. One of my friends suggested that i try masturbating to achieve the big “O” but i still cant. Even masturbation is not helping that much. What should i do ?

  33. @mariana. yes you can surely do it. I taste my penis juices 🙂 .. let me give you some simple tips to make vagina taste better. ( 1 ) Eat red grapes. The more the better. And now more important fingering tip. ( 2 ) To clean up your vagina with warm water and mild soap with a ph7 level. Also, to clean the area around your clitoris. make sure you rinse you vagina well enough. Tip: Try to clean before have sex rather than too early.

  34. Marianna Smith says:

    I want to taste my vagina juices. Will it be harmful. I have seen few girls on internet self-licking own vaginal fluids as they lick and spit on hands to rub the pussy. How does it tastes. Will it be safe to lick my juices.

  35. Can I masturbate during my periods. I tend to get aroused alot on the second or third of menstruation. I tried it twice in both times, it pushed more bleeding. Is there safe technique to masturbate during periods. Sorry for asking ridiculous question. Is it safe to rub cunt in periods.

  36. Laura Goudinho says:

    Masturbation is a great way to lessen tension in your body. It’s a very safe way to have an orgasm. And it’s probably the best way to learn about how your body likes to be loved. But masturbation, like most things, takes practice. And the only way to learn about your own sexual response is to try it. Keep exploring your body holes and enjoy life with your fingers and dildos.

  37. @kavita you are asking about masturbation or relieving your bad habit of fingering. I can simply guide you this … seen my gf do it 🙂 … Ok heres the simple guide for you. Take 4 fingers rub the top of ur pussy up and down and watch porn simple …..close your legs when doing it it feels way better like that and if that don’t work turn your bath tub faucet on like you are gonna take a bath and sit under it and let it pour that also works ….

  38. Awesome Girl says:

    Masturbation is an art. It is not a mechanical activity. You can enjoy masturbation, only if your mind and body are synchronized. I would suggest the following, here it goes ______ 1:::: Play some soft music that makes you relaxed. 2:::: Start visulaizing as if you are having intimate moments with a partner:::: Imagine vividly, in detail about how he looks! 3:::: Start undressing yourself, as if he is undressing you. 4:::: Once topless, start caressing your nipples, as if he is doing it. 5:::: Make your fingers wet and keep fondling your nipples while imagining that your man is at it. 6:::: Caress your body wherever you think you have sensual feelings. 7:::: Reach your vagina and start caressing it from outside to inside slowly. 8:::: For some the outer lips could be very sensitive. For some its the inner lips. So chose the sensitive part of the vagina and use your imagination to enhance your sensual feelings by fondling or touching that spot. 9:::: For most girls its the clitoris that is most sensitive. Use your fingers effectively to stimulate your clitoris until you are wet. 10:::: Imagine various scenarios and use various combinations of caress and fondle to achieve max effect. 11:::: Watch masturbation xxx movies to inspire you (not to replicate). Do not penetrate deep, it might hurt as they are trained whores, you cannot insert that deep.

  39. Kavita Menon says:

    Okay.. let me put this straight. I dont want to ruin my sexual life so I love to masturbate but off late I m not enjoying fingering vagina the way I used to. I need to try out some very good advice given here however I want to know personal experiences from some of the readers here. I am too horny for being a girl. I think sex 24×7. Even slight accidental touch with a guy makes me wet down there and my panty itches a lot. I want to ask a question, wondering how to get rid of this horny feeling. I am perplexed in last few years I have become more sexually active (masturbating almost daily and sometimes twice a day). My age is 27. Pl guide me.

  40. Cyndrella says:

    Nice info. I have almost same but some different experiences of masturbation. This is what always gives me an orgasm ————- You need to get more in the mood, think dirty thoughts,erotica or even lock your door and slowly undress, just try anything that turns you on. If you don’t know what I mean by being turned on it means that you are craving sex and you get wet down there. Once you are turned on undress in your locked bedroom or bathroom (privacy is very important) Lay on the floor, bed or even your bathtub (your choice) and spread your legs. If you have a handheld mirror then hold it up to yourself down there, look at all your parts. Now slowly begin rubbing all over your body (not just your breast and vagina). Now Move to your hips and slowly move towards your vagina. When you are at your vagina I would suggest focusing on your clit (the hood at the top of your vagina). Rub as hard and fast as it feel good. Keep rubbing and don’t stop until orgasm.When you orgasm you will know that you did. Right before you orgasm you might feel like you need to pee. Don’t hold it in. When you orgasm you might squirt out a clear liquid, some people do and others don’t.

  41. Wow … what a great piece of article. One of the best to be found in internet. Thanks. I would also like to list some good female masturbation methods. Probably the most important thing to remember when you begin masturbating is that you’re doing it to have fun and become comfortable with your own body. All women are different, so don’t be surprised if some techniques work very well for you and others do not. Experiment with the different styles to find out what’s right for you. Not only will this help you masturbate better, but you’ll also become a better lover because you know how to give yourself pleasure. >>>> – Clitoral Roll Place your thumb and forefinger on either side of your clitoris and gently roll it between your fingers… … … … … … … … … >>>> – Circling the Clit Place two fingers directly onto the clitoris, then begin rubbing them in a circular motion around and around… … … … … … … >>>> – Can You Spell Orgasm? Use your fingers to trace the various letters of the alphabet across the clitoris… … … … … … … >>>> – Double Stimulation With one hand, gently insert one or two fingers into the vagina. With the other hand, begin tapping or rubbing on the clitoris… … … … … … … >>>> – Shower Head Hand held shower heads are especially useful in directing the flow of water onto your erogenous zones… … … … … … … >>>> – Bath Tub Fun The bath tub itself holds many possibilities for masturbatory pleasure… … … … … … … In the Jacuzzi/Hot Tub If you have a jacuzzi or hot tub available, the jets of water can have wonderful effects on your body… … … … … … … >>>> – Bottled Orgasm Fill your tub about halfway with comfortably warm water. Take an empty bottle that has a nozzle (shampoo bottle, detergent or cleaner bottle) and fill it with water… … … … … … … >>>> – Riding the Seam Some women can achieve sexual pleasure simply by rubbing their legs together when wearing jeans… … … … … … … >>>> – Humping Sitting on a pillow or cushion and rocking your hips back and forth can cause direct stimulation onto the clitoris… … … … … … … >>>> – Stocking Slide Take a stocking or a pair of tights (preferably silk) and holt the foot in one hand behind your back, let the fabric drape down between your legs and hold it in front with your other hand… … … … … … … >>>> – Brush Off The very large and super soft round headed brushes that are designed for puttin on makeup can also be used as masturbation tools… … … … … … … >>>> – Triple Stimulation Laying naked on your back, lubricate your anus, the anal area and your clitoris… … … … … … … >>>> – Teetering on the Edge Use your favorite masturbation technique to bring yourself close to orgasm. Just as you’re about to climax, stop all activity and let yourself relax for a moment, relishing in the near release… … … … … … … >>>> – Knuckle Up Make a fist and press one knuckle up higher than the others… … … … … … … >>>> – Polish Lover At the grocery store, find some polish sausages that are sized the way you like (some like ’em big, some small)… … … … … … … >>>> – Icy Fun Use a popsice or several ice cubes to penetrate the vagina… … … … … … … >>>> – Bag of Cubes Take a plastic bag and fill it up with ice cubes. Make sure to seal the top so the water doesn’t leak out during your masturbation session… … … … … … … >>>> – Oral Vacuum Take the long, slim attachment with the flat opening and attach it to your vacuum… … … … … … … >>>> – Washing Machine/Dryer Many women enjoy masturbating while sitting on the washing machine and/or dryer while they’re in operation… … … … … … … >>>> – Couch Humping Balance yourself on the corner of a couch or cushioned chair and rub your clit back and forth across the edge of it…

    1. Bob Wilson says:

      My wifes dirty little secret is her vacuum cleaner obsession sucking her Labia and clit flapping and vibrating in the nozzle. It will go on for Hours sometimes. Totally addicted to cumming over and over again and again and again…………..NonStopOrgasm !!!!!!