I love it, if they know what they’re doing or will take instruction. The worst is when they think they’re good at it or don’t take any of the hints of how I’m physically or verbally responding. I mean, it’s best if they’re already pre-trained and know what they’re doing. But I’m happy to tell someone what I like, if they’ll listen. I cannot let a loser lick my pussy. No way! (Name withheld on request)

I hate it. Hate it, hate it, hate it. I don’t know if it’s because my first husband — who was also my first sexual partner — was completely adverse to it and I developed a shame for it? But post-divorce, there were dudes who were totally into it, and I would end up either having a panic attack about it, or it would do absolutely nothing for me because I was just waiting for it to be over. Hate it. Ew. No. Gross. Hate. (Joanne R)

These are experiences of two women who somewhat disliked cunnilingus due their own valid reasons. If you don’t want your women to make such statements then prefer methods to become cunnilingus expert.

“Cunnilingus is not just licking a vagina, it is an art, it is playing soft music with the tongue and making her vertical lips dance to the lustful tunes.”

Dr Sophia Lee Smith

Cunnilingus On a Vulva

What is cunnilingus oral sex ?

Cunnilingus is the fine art of making love to a vagina with your mouth and tongue. It is a delicate skill, requiring patience, practice, and dedication to get it right, but any woman you learn to do it right for will appreciate you all the more for it.

What applies to the penis applies to the vulva– every one is different, requiring a different touch to make its owner happy. But few tools can equal the tongue for the amount of pleasure it can deliver to a happy vagina.

This article assumes that you know what a vulva looks like and can identify with some precision the mons veneris, labia majora, clitoral hood, clitoris, labia minora, urethra, vagina, and perineum, to name them (approximately) from top to bottom.

Cunnilingus - Oral sex On a Vulva Labia and vagina

Preparation of Licking Vulva

Face and pussy stubble makes oral sex on a woman uncomfortable. Guys! It’s best to be clean shaven and smooth, or to have a little bit of a beard, but day-old stubble can be problematic. Sandpaper up the clitoris is a surefire way to end the occasion. Trim and smooth your fingernails so that when you finger her, you don’t scratch her accidentally.

Girls should use hair band so that hairs does not come to the face when it is performed on her girlfriend.

Don’t underestimate the importance of these two things – they can make the difference between you getting her off with your mouth, and her telling you to stop, or just not enjoying herself as much. Don’t let it happen to you. Keep in touch with your partner about her comfort levels with your facial hair status, and remember that nobody likes ever likes sandpaper on their skin.

Positions for Cunnilingus

Any position whereby you can get your mouth to her vagina works, however some do work better than others for both you and her. The position you choose is going to depend on what you are trying to achieve, and how long you intend to be doing it for. You, as the giver, need to be comfortable, and she, as the receiver, needs to be correctly positioned to get the desired benefit from your mouth. The desired benefit may be an orgasm, or it may be pleasure – positions that result in orgasm may not be the same as those that offer simple pleasures.

How fast should I lick Vagina?

This isn’t an attack. Don’t go after the clitoris like a fireman attacking a fire. Quite often at first, the clitoris is far too sensitive for direct stimulation. Lick around it, stimulating the hood, teasing her inner labia, tasting her.

Take your time and listen to her. Some women make noise, and some do not. It will be a while before you learn exactly what your lover prefers as far as oral sex is concerned.

Some women may like additional stimulation– a finger or two into the vagina, or perhaps even the anus. She may want your hands to reach up and play with her breasts, or she may want your fingers to hold her labia apart so that your tongue can get at her vulva more directly.

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I’ve heard cunnilingus doesn’t taste good

If the taste or smell bothers you or is a concern, ask her to wash first. Most people who enjoy cunnilingus agree that a clean vagina is a good, if acquired, taste. As a woman nears her climax, she may want more direct stimulation. In general, fast, rhythmic stimulation is most effective at causing climax – but there shouldn’t be a rush to get there. Take your time and learn to appreciate what you can do for her.
Cunnilingus - Oral sex On a Vulva

What about cunnilingus during menstruation?

Some people are particularly turned off at the suggestion of cunnilingus during menstruation. If it is a concern to you, then wait. A tampon may well hold the blood back, as will a diaphragm, but some men can’t stand the taste anyway. If your partner is healthy, however, there is no particular danger in menstrual blood, and some women find that orgasms during their periods alleviate cramps.

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You find many people talk about oral sex – but how many of them have mastery of it?

We have listed oral sex guides here for you to become master of fellatio/cunnilingus. Explore several health aspects of oral sex here.

Enjoy lick and suck in those naughty moments of your life.

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