Is real meeting better than to have Sex with Strangers Online
How to Attract the Opposite Sex, a Stranger one
Some men have fantasy of hooking with stranger women; young or old – places like office, library, bus, train, party hub, bar, conference and more.
One of the biggest mysteries for every man is how to seduce a stranger. Many men believe that women aren’t just women. They feel like we have to know each of them intimately in order to push their buttons. The fact of the matter is that you don’t. You can use the following tools to help seduce a stranger.
Always give the stranger your name before they can give you their name. Normally you would only give your name out if the woman asked for. This is great way to tell if she’s interested in you. However, since you are taking the chance and approaching her cold, it’s best to introduce yourself first. When you’re trying to seduce a stranger, you want her to feel comfortable in her environment.
Don’t play grab ass. When you first try to seduce a stranger, you are a stranger to them also. Don’t touch them until they touch you first. This could be a slight brush of the leg or a pat on the shoulder.
Tell her why you came over. Playing a game with her and trying to drop hints with metaphors is never going to work on a stranger. You want her to know why you came over to her. This is essential seducing a stranger because it conveys your confidence.
Determine her status. Making an ass out of yourself for no reason is never good. You need to see if she’s single. If she tells you that she has a boyfriend, retreat immediately. She’s not playing hard to get. She’s saying leave me alone.
Don’t run game. You don’t want it to seem like you’re running some kind of routine on her. Seducing a stranger is all about improvisation. Have a little fun, but stay on task.
Expect rejection but don’t show it. A lot of women do not feel comfortable with being approached by a stranger, but some really get off on it. If you plan on getting rejected you can have a plan in place for when she lies about a boyfriend.
Seducing a stranger is not easy, but it can get easier over time. Follow these rules and you’ll definitely see a difference in the way that women react to your approaches.
Technique #1: Open Posture
In uncomfortable situations it is typical to keep to oneself. One way this manifests itself is through our posture. When we’re uncomfortable often we’ll cross our arms, touch our face or cross our legs while standing. Perhaps it makes us feel more secure. However, the impression this can give off is very negative. When we cross our arms we give off the impression that we’re defensive, combative, displeased and not ready to talk to anyone. In order to become approachable it is important to adopt an open posture. When trying to pick up chicks, make sure that your arms are by your sides or in you lap and that you are not touching your face. Make sure to avoid crossing your arms and legs.
Technique #2: Smile
Now that you’ve got your posture down and are no longer closing yourself off to others lets add a smile. Nothing welcomes a stranger more than a smile. If someone catches your eye and you show them a smile they will think “Hey, here is someone who isn’t going to rip me to shreds if I go up and approach him.” A smile shows strangers that you want to be friendly. Nothing is more attractive on a man or woman than a smile. So don’t forget to smile, soon it will come naturally!
Technique #3: Sit Tall
When you’re talking to someone sit up and keep straight. This shows that you’re interested in what they’re saying. If you’re sitting back and slouching it shows that you’re not giving the person your full attention and that you are getting bored with what they’re saying. It may be more comfortable and you may be tired, but you’re telling the person that what they’re saying is not important enough to require your full attention. It is a major turn off and people may think you’re arrogant.
Technique #4: Shake Hands
Don’t wait for others to shake hands and introduce themselves, take the initiative. It is important to take the initiative, because if you don’t the other person may be shy and then you run the risk of not being introduced. Then you become reluctant to start talking with the person and you can end up sitting in awkward silence. By shaking hands and introducing yourself with something like “Hi, I’m John Smith. It’s nice to meet you.” You are making a connection with the person and making yourself approachable. The handshake is a non-aggressive way for men to “connect” with women.
Technique #5: Eye Contact
Girls love to look into a guys eyes, so be sure to let them! (They think the eyes are a gateway into the soul or some mumbo jumbo like that.). Maintaining eye contact when talking shows that you’re interested and paying attention to what they’re saying. Nothing is more attractive to a woman. DO NOT stare at their body or breasts no matter what when they are talking. Also, when making eye contact with a stranger across the room, make sure not to stare at them. Give them a look that acknowledges them long enough to make a connection and then go back to what you were doing. Don’t just immediately look away once they look at you. This is instinctive, so it takes a while to overcome. Practice makes perfect! A cool rule is the “45 second rule” Once you make eye contact with a girl, if she looks back at you after 45 seconds you’ve got their interest. Go up and introduce yourself. If you don’t maintain eye contact with a girl while dancing or talking you will find her excusing herself after a while.
So there you have it. Five ways to make yourself approachable. Let’s put it all together. You’re at a gathering of friends. Make sure to use an OPEN POSTURE and SMILE. When given the first opportunity SHAKE HANDS and introduce yourself giving you name. (Make sure to remember *their* name). When you sit down be sure to SIT STRAIGHT UP and be attentive. Finally, when talking be sure to MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT to show that you’re interested in what the other person is saying. Follow these five rules and you should have no trouble finding girls to talk with and they’ll think you’re a genuinely attractive guy.