using sex toy

A sex toy is an object or device that is primarily used to facilitate human sexual pleasure, such as a dildo or vibrator. Many popular sex toys are designed to resemble human genitals and may be vibrating or non-vibrating.

Popular among women are sex vibrators. Sex vibrators are vibrating devices intended to stimulate the body. Vibrators come in a range of shapes and sizes, for internal or external use. Some vibrators intended for internal use are phallic in shape. Small vibrators may have a stretchy loop attachment for use as a finger toy or cock ring. Penetrative vibrators usually measure twelve to eighteen cm (five to seven inches) in length and two to five cm (one to two inches) wide often to mimic the size of the average human penis.

Male and female sex toys add the much needed spark and excitement in the sex life. Sex is a wonderful part of the couples and should be celebrated with great pomp and enjoyment. The interesting thing here is that it’s not only about adding excitement and fun to the sex life but it is a learning curve for exploring one’s own sexuality and sexual affinity towards various stimulation techniques. One can know the needs of the partner in a better way which helps build a stronger bonding in and outside the bed sheets. As sex is regarded as a healthy phenomenon so is masturbation. Sex toys help in both acts i.e. health and sexual pleasure. Sex toys were seen as an accessory for women only but the growing openness towards sexual exploration and pleasure has seen the rise in popularity of male sex toys, especially the prostate or the male g spot massagers.

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Female’s Friend, The Sex Toy

For women, sexual stimulation or pleasure is not just a formality as many men see it to be. For this reason women see sex toys a bit differently from men. For women, sex toys are not just for satisfaction but also means of having fun and exploring newer ways of stimulating themselves. Most women are not stimulated by the sensation of penis thrusting in the vagina. Women crave more than just that. Clitoral stimulation, oral pleasure is what women want so that they can reach orgasm. Vibrators came to the rescue as the provided exactly what women wanted. An extremely satisfying sexual experience, an orgasm and lot of pleasure is included in the vibrator package. For women sexual intercourse and self stimulation is more of an emotional experience rather than it just being purely physical. It is not merely satisfying the physical need but a lot more than that. Sex toys have found great friends in women.

A Sex Toy is Best Gift for Your Wife

Women love surprises and wife’s love it even more. So if you want to make her happier with a gift, there is no better gift than a sex toy. It would be a gift meant not only for her but for both of you. It is going to be a great addition to the bedroom, not to forget the relationship. Choosing one can be quite an ordeal as there are a plethora of sex toys available in the market. One good way would be to engage her in a cheeky discussion as to which sex toys she likes, much before the occasion. Another way would be having knowledge of her erogenous zones and buying one that stimulates those zones the most. The more diverse the pleasure she gets, more would be better for you. You surely are heading the right way into her heart.

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How to get the best from the sex toys

Here are a few tips to utilize the full potential of the sex toys

Lube it before you use it

Lubrication adds the smoothness to the overall experience of using a sex toy. Sex toys offer the best stimulation when they are lubricated properly. Proper lubrication gives you the maximum pleasure that the sex toy can offer.

Slow and steady wins the race

If your sex toy has various speeds in terms of vibrations, start at the lowest and work your way upwards. Gradual stimulation will lead up to a great orgasm.

Stimulate before you invade

Rushing into inserting the sex toy into the love holes will not be great fun. Rushing things will not help. Stimulating the erogenous zones before insertion will multiply the pleasure that the sex toy will offer. Patience is a virtue after all.

What is in store for sex toy users?

Some women try out innovative home-made sex toys. The future of sex toys may hold more than what the current crop has to offer us. But there are some toys already claiming to be the future of sex toys. These include stimulators that mimic human body and flexible dolls. These have indeed been revolutionary sex toys and have set the benchmark for the toys in the years to come. As sexuality and masturbation become more open issues than before, these sex toys are gaining on their already popular counterparts i.e. the conventional vibrators. Rabbit vibrators and realistic vibrators have a challenge on their hands. No matter who wins it is sex-toy users who will benefit. Let’s hope we get more and more pleasure filled accessories in the form of sex toys in the years to come.

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