One of the most handed down, often-quoted quotations is that “If you change your thoughts, you change your life.”
It is so true…
It takes a thought to create an emotion, which in turn drives a decision to take an action.
All the self-help books, tapes, seminars, etc. show you what to do, but not what to think or how to prioritize in order to do it.
How do you change your thoughts and lifestyle in order to make the right actions?
Nowadays, we live in such a fast-paced world that we don’t take the time to â€˜stop and smell the roses.’ We are on a fast-paced train that continually runs on a regular track of toxic habits and behaviors. Sound familiar?
Well then, how do we get off this lethal train?
The first step is to recognize how we neglected to take time – the time to become calm within ourselves. By doing this, we acknowledge how reckless our lifestyles have become.
You might be saying to yourself, “Yeah, but the kids need me to drive them to soccer practice,” “I have to make dinner and do the laundry, not to mention the ironing,” “Oh, I am so busy with my business and the PTA. Oh, and I can’t forget my church group.”
Do you see and hear the insanity of it all? If you want to change something in you life, how much of this mayhem do you think you are going to fit in with what you are wanting?
Do you remember that old Calgon commercial? It had the wife/mother frantic, trying to get everything done. With her children screaming and the phone ringing, she finally runs into the bathroom, locks the door, throws up her hands and looks up shouting “Calgon, take me away!”
This advertisement said it all. She just needed a moment of peace. When we are able to take just a few minutes to be with ourselves, we can take what I like to call â€˜ME TIME’.
Within those brief but valuable tranquil moments, we can start making conscious, clearer decisions about what we want. And remember, changing your thought patterns can create the change that you desire.
My challenge to you is to take a hard look at how often you seize that sacred moment to be with yourself. Is it once a week? Twice a week? Ultimately, my hope is that you become mindful to do this every single day of your life.
This means escaping from all of the chaos for a few minutes. Slowing down your pace; thinking of no one but you. Self- care is essential for life balance and when we forget about loving ourselves first, we can then tumble helplessly into possible burnout, depression, addiction, etc.
The second step is awareness. To realize the more often you think new thoughts, the more often they cross your mind, the higher your standards will be. More often you will be compelled to take the actions that will make you more and more successful in that area of your life.
Treasure in…treasure out.
Garbage in…(well, you get the idea).
For instance, you can have thoughts of being a thin person, but not think of being a financially stable person.
Simply, this means you can become so focused on your weight loss, that you completely neglect your financial goals. Remembering that your thoughts create standards that oversee your actions and decisions, you can have it all. This principle pertains to every aspect of your life, you just need to be aware and focus on your life’s balance. Therefore, go ahead and think of what it would be like to lose weight but don’t forget to also put thought into how you are going to keep your finances in order.
Once you start reflecting on the past, it is inevitable that your thoughts will create your destiny. I challenge you to set aside some time today to reflect on what is most important to YOU.
You CAN achieve your weight loss goals and enjoy a more balanced life.
“If you change your thoughts, you will change your life.”
Copyright Â© 2006 Jeff Cadwell Positive Coaching