Oral Sex Tips For Woman – Mind Blowing Oral Sex Tips – Seduce Him, Make Him Yours

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Scientists call it fellatio. Guys who could give a damn about science call it a blowjob, a hummer, a pearl dive, etc. But no matter what you call it, having your partner go down on you is one of life’s greatest pleasures.

A person who performs fellatio or oral sex or blow job on someone might be referred to as the giving partner, and the other person as the receiving partner. Fellatio can be sexually arousing for participants, and males commonly experience orgasm and ejaculation of semen during the act. People may use hummer as part of a foreplay to sexually arouse their sex partner before vaginal or anal intercourse, or other sexual activity, or they may use it as an erotic and physically intimate act in its own right. Though a person who receives blow job is male, his sex partner may be of either gender. When the penis is thrust into someone’s mouth, it may be called fellation, though the term is rarely used.

The essential aspect of oral sex is for a man’s sex partner to take his penis into their mouth, and then move their mouth up and down the penis to a rhythm set by them mimicking the thrusting motion of vaginal or anal intercourse, with saliva acting as a lubricant, and being careful not to bite or scratch with the teeth. The man receiving fellatio can slow the rhythm of the stimulation by holding his partner’s head. The man’s partner may also orally play with the receiver’s penis by licking, sucking, kissing or otherwise playing with the tongue and lips. Blow job may also include the oral stimulation of the scrotum, whether licking, sucking or taking the entire scrotum into the mouth.

Sometimes, though, there are a few snags. It is easier said than understood and done.

Unfortunately, Fellatio 101 isn’t standard classroom fare. It’s not even something the mother bird teaches its young. As a public service for anyone who has a few questions about the right techniques, here is a laundry list of tips on what guys look for — and require — in a good blowjob.

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Be easy

1.Don’t try so hard. Last year, my friend “Bridget” asked me why she couldn’t fellate her boyfriend to orgasm. My response? In a perfect world of Playboy and porno flicks, hummers lead to big, healthy orgasms. You know the scene: some tramp uses a pogo-like motion to deep throat her partner, only to be greeted by the requisite money-shot a mere seconds later.

Whatever.

I told Bridget to ignore the pot o’ pearls at the end of the rain-blow. Instead, I asked her to think of the hummer as the perfect pre-game warm-up. Think about it…What better way to prepare for the plunge than with a good wand-wash? Do runners break records without stretching? Do writers hand in first drafts? No. Like a good appetizer, I’ve found that a little sucky-sucky before the supper always makes for a pleasant dining experience.

Give time

2. Give yourself a hand. Guys spend years refining their “handy” skills before grabbing their first gobbler. And while the hand is neither moist nor equipped with a tongue, self-help is sometimes very satisfying. Therefore, I suggest women use their hands AND their mouths while orally pleasuring their partner. Ladies, the mouth alone cannot provide the surface penetration needed to excite the penis. Cover the tip with your mouth, making sure to cover your teeth with your lips. Swirl the tongue around the head and shaft. Then grasp your boy’s toy so that your forefinger is touching your lips. Using your mouth and your hands in unison, begin the up and down motion. Glance up and admire his smile.

YOU Initiate it..Let him Know You Love Giving Oral

YOU Initiate it..Let him Know You Love Giving Oral

No debate

3. Ignore the “spit versus swallow” argument. Some men SWEAR that sperm swallowing is really a test used to measure the amount of trust a woman has for them. I’ll probably lose my union membership for this, but it really doesn’t matter. If you can cause the eruption, you’re a goddess. Draw the pearly white lava and we will worship your volcanoes to no end.

Be teasingly noisy

Never Criticize His Penis Size..During Oral

Never Judge His Penis Size..During Oral

4. Bring the noise. Since “blowing” never really comes into play with a blowjob (well, for females, really), you’ve probably wondered where the term “hummer” comes from. Well, just like you ladies enjoy some good vibrations, we guys like the 1,200 beats-per-minute action, too. As you’re fellating away, hum a few bars from Warrant’s “Cherry Pie.” Okay, maybe a better song. In any event, vocal vibrations translate well to the penis. If you’re a real sweetheart, though, you’ll hum his favorite tune.

Tongue movement

5.Don’t get all Hollywood. You’ve seen Kevin Smith’s “Clerks,” right? You remember the scene where America was introduced to “snowballing,” right? Forget that scene.

Obviously, no two men are alike. Different folks take different strokes — not to mention tongue patterns. If you’re really looking to deliver perfect oral pleasure, ask him to guide you through. It’ll open up your lines of communication, turn the sexual experience into a learning one — and give you an excuse to make some suggestions yourself.

Caution alert

Just because a woman can’t get pregnant by giving head doesn’t mean oral sex is totally safe sex. Though the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases or HIV is much lower with oral sex than with anal or vaginal sex, there still are risks. To make oral sex as safe as possible, there are a few steps you can take.According to the STD Education Unit of San Francisco Department of Public Health, for maximum protection you should use a non-lubricated latex condoms without spermicide. If you don’t like the taste, try flavored condoms. If you really don’t want to use a condom while performing oral sex on a man, the STD Education Unit suggests a few alternatives.Avoid taking cum in your mouth or leaving it in someone else’s mouth. If you get cum in your mouth, spit it out.Avoid sucking if you have bleeding gums, sores, abscessed teeth, or have just gone to the dentist. These could make it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body. Wait until they heal.

Do not brush or floss your teeth right before or after having sex. For fresh breath, try chewing gum or rinsing with mouthwash.

Look closely for sores or blisters on the genitals, mouth or lips. If sores or blisters are visible, avoid oral sex. Remember, though, it’s not always possible to see sores or blisters.

Avoid deep throating. This may irritate the lining of the throat, making it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body.

5 Responses to Oral Sex Tips For Woman – Mind Blowing Oral Sex Tips – Seduce Him, Make Him Yours

  1. Melanie says:

    i have a canker sore but im planning on giving my girlfriend oral sex, i don’t have an std or anything like that, and neither does she, but is it still dangerous some how? if so, how?

  2. Peter says:

    If you start to give a guy oral sex but stop before he ejaculates or even pre-cums are you at risk for any STDs? I’ve read that the risk of HIV is basically zero in that situation, but are there any other diseases you can contract that way?

  3. blarg blarg says:

    I am madly in love with my boyfriend and everything about our relationship is great, except our sex life. I am very self concious so I believe that probably worsens the situation but we rarely do anything different. I mean I enjoy having sex with him and I perform oral sex for him almost every day. He has hinted at it one time but never actually tried to do it for me… Im wondering how to get him to do it without making him feel like its an obligation.

  4. andresumoza says:

    Okay me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while and if we had oral sex,would we get anything? Or what if we had sex? (Sorry kinda embarrassing asking lol)
    And what would happen if we kissed in the future?

  5. Motordom says:

    I wanna know how long would i have to speak 2 a girl, for it to be ok to get oral sex from her.

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