Cunnilingus – Oral sex On a Vulva

I love it, if they know what they're doing or will take instruction. The worst is when they think they're good at it or don't take any of the hints of how I'm physically or verbally responding. I mean, it's best if they're already pre-trained and know what they're doing. But I'm happy to tell someone what I like, if they'll listen. I cannot let a loser lick my pussy. No way! (Name withheld on request)

I hate it. Hate it, hate it, hate it. I don't know if it's because my first husband — who was also my first sexual partner — was completely adverse to it and I developed a shame for it? But post-divorce, there were dudes who were totally into it, and I would end up either having a panic attack about it, or it would do absolutely nothing for me because I was just waiting for it to be over. Hate it. Ew. No. Gross. Hate. (Joanne R)

These are experiences of two women who somewhat disliked cunnilingus due their own valid reasons. If you don't want your women to make such statements then prefer methods to become cunnilingus expert.

"Cunnilingus is not just licking a vagina, it is an art, it is playing soft music with the tongue and making her vertical lips dance to the lustful tunes."

Dr Sophia Lee Smith

Cunnilingus On a Vulva

What is cunnilingus oral sex ?

Cunnilingus is the fine art of making love to a vagina with your mouth and tongue. It is a delicate skill, requiring patience, practice, and dedication to get it right, but any woman you learn to do it right for will appreciate you all the more for it.

What applies to the penis applies to the vulva-- every one is different, requiring a different touch to make its owner happy. But few tools can equal the tongue for the amount of pleasure it can deliver to a happy vagina.

This article assumes that you know what a vulva looks like and can identify with some precision the mons veneris, labia majora, clitoral hood, clitoris, labia minora, urethra, vagina, and perineum, to name them (approximately) from top to bottom.

Cunnilingus - Oral sex On a Vulva Labia and vagina

Preparation of Licking Vulva

Face and pussy stubble makes oral sex on a woman uncomfortable. Guys! It’s best to be clean shaven and smooth, or to have a little bit of a beard, but day-old stubble can be problematic. Sandpaper up the clitoris is a surefire way to end the occasion. Trim and smooth your fingernails so that when you finger her, you don’t scratch her accidentally.

Girls should use hair band so that hairs does not come to the face when it is performed on her girlfriend.

Don’t underestimate the importance of these two things – they can make the difference between you getting her off with your mouth, and her telling you to stop, or just not enjoying herself as much. Don’t let it happen to you. Keep in touch with your partner about her comfort levels with your facial hair status, and remember that nobody likes ever likes sandpaper on their skin.

Positions for Cunnilingus

Any position whereby you can get your mouth to her vagina works, however some do work better than others for both you and her. The position you choose is going to depend on what you are trying to achieve, and how long you intend to be doing it for. You, as the giver, need to be comfortable, and she, as the receiver, needs to be correctly positioned to get the desired benefit from your mouth. The desired benefit may be an orgasm, or it may be pleasure – positions that result in orgasm may not be the same as those that offer simple pleasures.

How fast should I lick Vagina?

This isn't an attack. Don't go after the clitoris like a fireman attacking a fire. Quite often at first, the clitoris is far too sensitive for direct stimulation. Lick around it, stimulating the hood, teasing her inner labia, tasting her.

Take your time and listen to her. Some women make noise, and some do not. It will be a while before you learn exactly what your lover prefers as far as oral sex is concerned.

Some women may like additional stimulation-- a finger or two into the vagina, or perhaps even the anus. She may want your hands to reach up and play with her breasts, or she may want your fingers to hold her labia apart so that your tongue can get at her vulva more directly.

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I've heard cunnilingus doesn't taste good

If the taste or smell bothers you or is a concern, ask her to wash first. Most people who enjoy cunnilingus agree that a clean vagina is a good, if acquired, taste. As a woman nears her climax, she may want more direct stimulation. In general, fast, rhythmic stimulation is most effective at causing climax - but there shouldn't be a rush to get there. Take your time and learn to appreciate what you can do for her.
Cunnilingus - Oral sex On a Vulva

What about cunnilingus during menstruation?

Some people are particularly turned off at the suggestion of cunnilingus during menstruation. If it is a concern to you, then wait. A tampon may well hold the blood back, as will a diaphragm, but some men can't stand the taste anyway. If your partner is healthy, however, there is no particular danger in menstrual blood, and some women find that orgasms during their periods alleviate cramps.

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22 Responses to Cunnilingus – Oral sex On a Vulva

  1. simplykathy says:

    After seeing so many bold comments. Its time that I also reveal y personal experience. My name is Kathy (I’ll just leave this on a first name basis) and live in one of the suburbs of Dayton, Ohio. I came to Dayton in 1976 from Indianapolis to attend the University of Dayton. I was 18, just graduated from high school and wanting to get away from home but not too far away, so Dayton seemed perfect. I wasn’t a virgin, but wasn’t terribly experienced sexually, either, having had two serious boyfriends and one one-night-stand. My senior year steady had gone off to college in Michigan, so I felt like I was free to date when I got to Dayton. So, I moved out to Dayton and started college. I’ve always been pretty outgoing, so I quickly made a number of new friends, most of who liked to party. Early in the first semester, I went with three other girls in my class down to Flanagan’s bar near campus. We were there for awhile splitting pitchers of beer and got talking to three guys sitting at a nearby table. I hit it off with one of the guys and spent a while talking to him. He told me his name was Bob and was down here visiting friends, but was a junior at Ohio Northern. He was about 6′, tanned and very muscular. I was very attracted to him and found myself thinking “Hmm, I don’t know this guy very well, but with a little effort on his part, I could be had tonight”… We kept talking and he told me that he was very attracted to redheads. (I should describe myself, I guess…I was 18, 5’7, 125lbs, 36-26-35, red hair (carrot top)) After talking for awhile, he asked if I wanted to leave…which we did. We made some excuses to the others and left for his car which turned out to be a van. We got into the back of the van, started kissing and he wasted no time in getting my blouse off of me. By that time, I was very turned on and was kissing him passionately while unbuttoning his shirt. I whispered “I don’t normally let guys pick me up in bars like this…” He said that he believed me but was glad the two of us had gotten together. I slid his shirt off of him, revealing a very muscular chest. I was kissing his chest while he unsnapped my bra. He gently maneuvered me onto my back and unsnapped my jeans. At that point, I was as horny as I could get, squirming to let him get my pants off and saying “Bob, I want you, I want you so bad”. He quickly took my panties off and then started undoing his belt. I heard myself say “Please let me do that”. He agreed and came closer, kneeling next to me. I propped myself up and started undoing his belt, undid his pants and unzipped him, dropping his jeans down around his knees. I kissed his stomach above his underwear band and said “Bob, let me blow you”. I got no argument as I pulled down his underwear and started to suck, stroking his balls with one hand and rubbing his ass with the other. He positioned himself on top of me, letting me suck while gently thrusting in and out a little. In high school, I had blown my other two boyfriends and didn’t mind doing it, but I found that this night I was really enjoying it. I wanted it to last for a while so I sucked slowly while maneuvering my tongue around. I laughed to myself thinking “If my friends in the bar could see me now”. I knew Bob was really enjoying having his redhead suck him as he was looking down at me and smiling ear to ear, which turned me on even more. He was reaching behind himself and fingering me which was driving me wild. After about 5 minutes more of sucking, I could sense he was about ready when he asked if I would do something for him. I nodded with stopping from working on him. He said, “Let me come in your mouth, Kathy”. I looked up, wide-eyed, having done that once before but only accidentally. He looked down, smiling and nodding his head and said “Don’t stop, I’m close, just squeeze my ass if it is okay”. I looked up at him again, closed my eyes, and felt my hand squeeze his ass and pull him closer. It seemed like only a few seconds when he exploded in my mouth. A lot went immediately down my throat, and I swallowed the right a few seconds later. He rolled backwards off of me and laid on his back. He rested for a second, then quickly slid his head down between my legs. I willingly spread my legs and got treated to the most tantalizingly slow licking I had ever had. He was damn good and obviously loved oral. He licked me slowly, literally driving me wild. He had me dripping wet and had me begging him to fuck me. I was so wild, I was offering to blow him all night if he would only fuck me. I knew what I was saying, but in my mind, couldn’t believe I was begging a man to ball me. He kept licking, getting faster and faster, until I finally came in the most massive orgasm I had ever had. In the meantime, he had evidently gotten hard again, recovering from my blowjob. As I was still recovering from being eaten, I felt him lift my legs and put them on his shoulders. He asked if I still wanted to be fucked, to which I said “Yes, do it…fuck me”. He did. He literally pounded me for about fifteen minutes, causing me to come at least 3 times. He rolled me on my stomach and kept pounding me from behind. After a few more minutes, he finally came and we both collapsed, exhausted. We fell asleep for about half and hour and then got dressed and he took me home. Before he left, we traded phone numbers and he said that he would be coming down in a few weeks and could we get together. I said yes, and we made a date for that Friday night. Well, something came up at the last minute, and Bob couldn’t make it that weekend, having to cancel at the last minute. I kidded with him on the phone asking him if he had met another girl. (He had a girlfriend up there already, but I didn’t know that at the time). So, with nothing better to do, a couple of us hit Flanagan’s again. We met some folks there that said there was a good party in the UD “ghetto” (off campus private housing to you folks that don’t know the area). So, around 9 that night, we meandered over to a house where a party was in full swing. I talked, danced a little, drank some beers. I wandered around the house and found a poker game going on with about ten people, girls and guys, in one room. Someone in this house was obviously a serious poker player because they had a regular table and they were all playing for money. I watched for a while until one guy quit and they asked me if I wanted in. I’ve always loved poker and was pretty good having been taught by my older brothers, but by the looks of the table, the stakes were pretty high and I only had ten dollars on me. I said, no, too rich for me, I only have ten dollars. They said the stakes weren’t high, it just looked like a lot of money because there were so many players. So, I bought in with my ten dollars and promptly went on a winning streak, at one point being up by about a hundred dollars. By that point, it was about 1 am and the party downstairs had ended and the game dwindled down to me and three guys who were determined not to let a girl beat them. I knew I should have quit because I was getting tired, but part of me wanted to wipe these guys out. My luck turned, though, and pretty soon I was down to about two bucks. I lost that and announced I was quitting and going home (my friends had left hours before, appalled at my poker playing). One of the guys, Jim, looked at me and said “Hmm, not a true gambler quitting like that”. I said, “well, I’m broke, you guys won”. Jim asked me if I’d be willing to put up a piece of clothing as collateral, if so, I could stay in the next hand. He said, anything would do and I wouldn’t have to give it up unless I lost. I was wearing shoes, socks, jeans, panties, bra, blouse and a sweater over the blouse, so I thought “I have enough clothes to win a hand or two without having to show anything”. I agreed and the shoes became collateral. I lost those, and put up the socks as collateral the next time, also losing. The third hand I used the sweater and won, and I was happily back in the money. I won a few more hands but was soon broke again and decided to try one more hand with the sweater. I lost, drawing nothing better than a pair of fours. At that point, I decided to quit, but the guys had one last proposition for me. Jim (obviously the bold one) looked at me and said “Are you willing to put it all on the line?” I said, “what?” He said “will you put all your clothes on the line against the whole pot of money?” The pot was big, about $250, so it was tempting. There was a bit of an argument among the three of them, but they finally agreed. Jim said, “it’s been a long night, and we’d like to end it by having you up on the table dancing and stripping for us”. I said, “Yeah, I bet you would like that”. I thought about it, and finally said, “I’ll bet but on these terms: I’m outnumbered, so one hand isn’t fair. We play three hands. If I win one of them, I get the money. If I lose, we’ll close the drapes, I’ll get up on the table and do the best strip-show you’ve ever seen”. They quickly agreed and we started to play. I lost the first hand and starting wondering if this had been a smart idea and if the beer had gotten the better of me. We played the second hand, I got 2 pair and felt confident but one guy had two pair also,king high. Another lost hand. I was visibly nervous at this point, knowing it was all coming down to one hand. The guys were being nice though, although they couldn’t help but smile. The last hand was being dealt while I was thinking “geez, in a few minutes I might be naked in front of three guys”. I chuckled nervously inside thinking that at least they were good looking guys. I looked down at my hand and saw two eights and a Jack and a five and a seven. I kept the eights and drew three. The draw was three fours…I had a full house…I was going to win! Two guys had nothing and Jim was grinning. He asked what I had and I showed the full house, smiling. He looked and said “Yes!” and put his hand down. I looked down at four tens and realized I had lost. At that point, I didn’t move. One guy put the top on the table while the other shut the curtains and put some music on. Jim came up behind me and whispered “It’ll be all right, Kathy. Show us what you’ve got. This will be our secret.” He kissed me on the cheek and patted my ass and sat down with the other two guys in front of the table. I was nervous, but determined not to let it show. I thought “Well Kathy, you put your ass on the line and now it’s time to pay the bet”. I climbed up on the table thinking “All right, here goes…I’m going to do one damn good strip for these guys”. I started dancing and swaying to the music and after a minute or so started unbuttoning my blouse. As it fell open, I swayed and jumped a bit letting them see my bra jiggle. I turned my back toward them and let the blouse fall, turning around and continuing to dance. I danced some more and then undid my jeans, sliding them down around my hips and finally dropping them and kicking them off the table. I danced around in my bra and panties, wishing I had worn my black or red set..haha..if I only knew I would be stripping! The guys knew it was payoff time and were fixed on me as I danced. I reached around, undid the bra but held it up in front, letting the straps fall down my arms. I suddenly realized that I was starting to enjoy this a little myself. Something inside me said “DO IT! SHOW ‘EM YOUR TITS! MAKE THEM CRAZY”. I did, I dropped the bra, danced, swayed and jumped, shaking my breasts in front of them. I dropped down to my knees, got on all fours and pulled my panties down in the back. I got back up, danced some more, then went down on my back, lifted my legs, and pulled the panties off and tossed them. I spread my legs, giving them a full view and then got back up and danced. I faced away from them, bent over and gave them a rear view and ran my finger across the lips. The embarrassment was gone as I realized that I really was turned on… I went back on my back, did one more leg spread for them and then stopped and laid on the table. The guys applauded wildly… I thought “my first strip got rave reviews”. I looked up and noticed that Jim was standing right next to the table looking down at me. He said “You were great, Kathy. You have one hell of a body and you do know how to shake your ass”. I looked up and managed a smile, too tired to say anything. Jim had other plans though…he quickly inserted two fingers in my pussy and said “Hmm, seems like you enjoyed the strip too. Looks like Kathy likes being naked in front of us”. He started pushing his fingers in and out and I protested saying “I didn’t agree to this”. He said, “I know, but it doesn’t seem like you mind too much. I think you’re turned on by being naked in front of three horny guys”. He kept fingering me and I was getting wetter but I didn’t stop him. After a minute, I suddenly realized that I WAS turned on and I was bucking against his hand which he had stopped moving. Our eyes met, and I knew I had been caught. I said, “I’m turned on, very turned on”. He laughed and said, “I think we all are” and pulled me up and kissed me while finger fucking me. We stopped kissing and I said “Am I going to be gang-banged?” He said, “Is that what you want?” I said, “yes”. Jim said, “then just ask, all you’ve gotta do is ask”. I managed to squeak out “I want to take you all on”. I had pretty much lost control to my desires at that point and said I wanted to blow Jim in front of his friends. He didn’t put up any argument. I knelt down, feeling incredibly horny that I was going to blow a guy in front of two others and sucked Jim off while the other guys watched wide-eyed. After I finished, I was picked up by the guys and carried to a bedroom where they took turns eating me and fucking me and letting me suck them. Ron, a stocky blond who had been the quietest, turned out to be the stud of the bunch–he balled me three times that night–once from behind while I was down on all fours blowing Jim for the second time. By 8 am, I had spent most of the night with my legs in the air and was worn out but happy. We did the three on one thing several more times that year until they all graduated in May. I never heard that the story got out, probably because they had steady girlfriends and Jim was getting married in June. I didn’t do any more group sex during my remaining three years in college, mainly because the opportunity never seemed to arise. Although I had become a seasoned pro at it over the year, I wasn’t quite ready to initiate it. I lost track of those guys after the end of my freshman year, but toward the end of my junior year, I got a call from Jim, who wanted to get together for lunch. I was a bit leery about that because of our past together and the fact that I knew he was now married. He seemed to sense my uneasiness about meeting and said that it wasn’t a “date” but really a business meeting as he wanted to talk to me about my working at the company he was with. I agreed to meet him the next day at a local restaurant. When I got to the restaurant, he was there waiting at the front door. “He really does look good”, I thought. He was tanned and obviously working out regularly. He hugged me a gave me a peck on the cheek and said I was looking great. I pushed aside the feelings that brought back, reminding myself that was a long time ago. We were seated and ordered lunch and talked some about old times, friends, his wife, etc. He ordered me a “Long Island Iced Tea”, a drink which I had never had. I drank that down quickly because it didn’t taste strong and ordered another. About halfway through that, I realized I was a little buzzed. Jim started talking about his work, saying that he was in sales and was currently bidding on a large contract with an out of state company and the deal was between his company and one other. He said he had invited the guy who was going to make the final decision to see the offices and facilities. I said, “Oh, sounds interesting, but where do I fit in to all this?” He said that he’d be meeting with the guy all day but would like for someone to take him to dinner and show him the town that evening. He said that he would rather someone pretty take him out rather than doing it himself. I said, “Oh this is some kind of blind date? You know, I’ve got a steady boyfriend now and don’t date…especially blind dates”. “Well”, he said, “I rather it not look like a date, anyway. I’d like you to pose as my secretary. I want to set up dinner and then back out at the last minute and pretend to ask you to sub for me.” I thought about it and said, “I don’t know, not really my style”. He said “this is a great deal for you. All you need to do is come to the office in the afternoon and act like you are working while he is around and then meet him for dinner and dancing. Buy a nice dinner dress and the company will pay for it. The whole evening is on the company tab and you get paid $500.00.” Finally, it hit me…”Jim”, I said, “You want me to ball him, don’t you?” I was incredulous. I had done a lot of crazy stuff but had never gotten paid for it. He looked a little embarrassed, but said “I need to pull out all the stops on this deal, Kathy. This might just be the edge. I need someone that I can count on”. He moved closer and put his hand on my knee and looked at me and said “I know I shouldn’t be saying this, but you’re damn good in bed. If anyone deserves to get paid for it, it’s you.” I actually blushed at that, not sure though if I was being complimented. The waitress came back and he ordered me another drink before I could say no. After a minute or so, I gulped the drink and finally said “Jim, you of all people know I love sex but, geez, this is like turning a trick.” He grinned and said, “Exciting thought, though, isn’t it”. He said “don’t answer yet, just think about it.” We talked some more and the waitress brought the check. I was starting to notice that Jim was doing a lot of looking at my chest and thought “I wonder if he is going to try to make me”. He paid the check and said “Let’s drive around and talk a bit.” I said okay and we went off in his car. He said that he thought about me a lot and missed the days of our group sessions, saying it was the best sex he had ever had. We had driven out by the Dayton Mall and he pulled into the lot and parked. He looked at me and said that he wasn’t planning on coming on to me but that seeing me again had turned him on. He took my hand and put it on his pants and I could tell he wasn’t kidding. I shouldn’t have, but I gave him a little squeeze through his pants. He put his arm around me and pulled me closer and starting kissing me. I responded, not being sure if I was excited because of the drinks, Jim, or the fact that someone’s husband wanted me. He unbuttoned a button on my blouse and slid a hand inside and into my bra. He said, “it’s been a long time since I felt them”. He then slid his hand up my leg and started pressing my pussy against my pantyhose. We kissed and I suggested a motel. We went to a motel and quickly got into bed and went at it like old times. When it was over, we laid there and cuddled. I kissed him and said “Jim, I’ll do it. I’ll be the company whore.” He said “are you sure? I didn’t mean to pressure you.” I grinned and said, “Jim, I want the job. I’m applying for it. Hire me.” He laughed and said “the job is yours.” Well, I went through with it. The guy was about thirty, pretty average, not bad in bed, although I wore him out. And getting paid for it was a turn on, I must admit, although I never did that again and don’t recommend it these days. Jim got the contract and eventually moved out of town. I still get Christmas cards. Well, that’s my confession. These days, I’m a 48 years old housewife. I might pass you in Kroger. But I won’t tell this story there.

  2. Gspotlover says:

    Spotting Gspot and licking pussy is making it good. Ernst Graftenburg was a German doctor that actually discovered this area, and it is named after him, the “g” spot. Within the woman’s vagina, the g-spot is an area on the front wall, not far from the actual vagina opening. The stimulation that is effective for the g-spot is a constant and firm pressure, which usually evokes a strong and profound orgasm in the woman. Assuming you know where it is, you have understood that is corresponds precisely to that area where the urethra is most near to the top of the wall of the vagina. It is interesting to note that each woman has some variety in where her g-spot is located, so the man must do some research to locate exactly where his partner’s g-spot is. This is done by the man first lubricating his index and middle fingers, and slowly inserting them into a similarly lubricated vagina. The fingers are inserted with the palm side facing the outside. At the top of the vagina’s wall, at about perpendicular with the urethra, the man will feel a sort of lattice-work area (rough and lenticular tissue). In the midst of the lattice-work is the g-spot and use feedback from your partner to confirm you have actually located it. Here follows three excellent positions that provide for maximum g-spot stimulation. o While performing cunnilingus, it’s a perfect time to simultaneously stimulate the g-spot. Again with the man’s index and middle finger inserted into the vagina (while the man’s tongue is performing cunnilingus) and using the “come here” motion locate and touch the g-spot. Use steady firm but not too firm pressure. With the action on the clitoris (from the cunnilingus) and pressure to the g-spot, both partners can assured of both a profound and extensive woman’s orgasm. Note, this will take approximately 20 minutes. o Another method which is sure to succeed is during intercourse, for the woman to mount the man, but not sit straight, but to lay directly on the man. The woman will be able to manipulate her position so there is direct pressure to the g-spot. The man has nothing at all to do except maintain his erection, and let the woman move into position. Once there the man can press slightly with his hips to increase the pressure from his erect penis. Orgasms, are often simultaneous with both partners quickly follows. o The g-spot can also be greatly stimulated by the couple finding a swimming pool that allows privacy. The man stands in the water at the shallow end, and the woman sits on the edge of the rim of the pool. She slides her legs into the water, and positions herself just enough so the man can enter her. The man’s penis will be directed at this angle directly to the g-spot. The woman or the man can gyrate but not thrust. The g-spot is better stimulated by constant and persistent localized pressure. Mutual orgasms are sure to follow. The G spot is a wonder of the female anatomy find out how to locate and then stimulate it and you will give your partner the ultimate in pleasure and satisfaction.

  3. pussyisheaven says:

    Years ago I did an unofficial survey on the subject (along with exhaustive field work) and discovered quite a few interesting inconsistencies. As already mentioned, some women are enthusiastic about performing fellatio and swallowing semen and some aren’t. But many of the women who claim they don’t really like it change their tunes with men who are especially sexy and desirable and/or when the women are in seductress mode. A number of women went into great detail about the importance of diets. One woman told me fellatio after a fish dinner was out and a couple mentioned they purposely feed their lovers chocolates then look forward to reaping the rewards. Quite a few insisted they didn’t like “stale” semen from men who hadn’t come in a while. Shortly after my divorce from a woman who punished me if I made the mistake of coming during oral sex (by refusing to do it again for months) I met a woman at a bar and ended up in the backseat of her car. She immediately started going down on me. When I felt myself starting to climax I tried to pull her head away (because of my training) but she wouldn’t budge. It was almost comedic with me yanking frantically on her hair and her fighting just as hard to stay in position and bring me to orgasm. I’m not sure who was more surprised. It was enlightening to discover my ex was the exception and that most women were more than OK with swallowing. Ironically, after a short separation we tried to reconcile and my ex thought she was making me happy by swallowing without blinking an eye. Her “gift” backfired because it pissed me off to know she found it so easy to say no to me (who was willing to marry her) for years but didn’t have the nerve to refuse casual dates who bought her dinner. A number of recently divorced women told me they’d never swallowed for their husbands and/or I was the first man they ever even tried it with. One of my favorite lovers absolutely loved swallowing. So much so that while she was performing fellatio I felt uninhibited enough to ask her if she wanted me to feed her and she’d go crazy with muffled screams of excitement. What an incredible turn on. Unfortunately, she turned out to be crazy. One of the dumbest things I’ve ever done was to tell a lover about an article I’d read that estimated the average ejaculation contained around 100 calories. She was an incredible lover who would happily fellate me anytime and almost anywhere. We worked together and she’d walk into my office, lock the door, tell me to sit on my desk, jump into my chair, and do such a neat job there was nothing to clean up. She was also elegant, model thin, and very weight conscious. After the mention about the 100 calories, she never swallowed again. Last anecdote to make my point. A friend’s wife was rude and sarcastic with me the whole time they were together. Years after they divorced, I ran into the woman at a social event and asked why she was always so nasty. She explained it was because she always felt I didn’t make her feel special. (I’ve always made a conscious effort to avoid being overly friendly or flirtatious with friends’ wives, girlfriends, and even dates). Long story short, we ended up in an empty room where she surprised me by slowly rubbing my leg and working her way up to my crotch, asking first if she could take “it” out and then if it was OK if she kissed it, then showing off her skills until she finished me off without getting a drop on my suit pants. She wanted to get together again but I told her I didn’t think it was a good idea. (It was the only time in my life when I got a sense of pleasure from what was probably revenge.) Months later, I was at a bar with my friend. While wondering if he might possibly know about me and his ex, I took a mouthful of beer as he launched into a mini-tirade about how she seduced him with the most incredible blow jobs he’d ever received that ended shortly after their honeymoon. It took everything in me to keep from spitting the beer all over the bar.

  4. anony32 says:

    I am a woman and oral sex does exactly nothing for me. It is most definitely NOT because I am priggish about sex. I am extremely positive about sex, and very confident about my body. But for much of my life, I have anguished over my body’s inability to respond to oral sex because I felt that a) it made me a freak, and b) some men were actually offended by my inability to enjoy it. I once even read where a man said he would refuse to have sex with a woman who didn’t like it. But one of the great things about being my age (39) is that now I really don’t give a shit what men think about the way my body works. If a man is unwilling to be flexible and generous enough to give me pleasure in the way that works for me, then I say NEXT! So why does my body not respond to oral sex? I think it is because I am one of those women for whom direct clitoral stimulation is just too intense. Also, ever since I can remember (i.e. since I was five years old), I have been masturbating on my stomach and with my legs closed. When I was pregnant with the first of my three children, I learned to masturbate on my side. I think maybe once I came while lying on my back, though it was a lousy orgasm. But I have never, ever been able to achieve orgasm with my legs spread apart – kind of essential for oral sex, it seems. When I am masturbating, I rub myself with and/or hump the knuckle of my thumb, usually over my panties. Again, my legs are tightly closed against my hand. Only at the last moment do I shove said knuckle under my panties to make myself come. What works when I am with a man is lying on top of him and rubbing against his penis, or lying on my side and allowing him to reach around behind me and stimulate me from behind with his finger. Recently a very kind man taught me that I have a G spot. If a man spoons me and puts a couple of fingers on my G spot (the anterior wall of my vagina maybe about a couple inches in – I know it when I feel it) then I can get a pretty great orgasm that way. At no point do I think any direct clitoral stimulation is involved. Indirect clit stimulation and direct G-spot stimulation seem to work better for me. The takeaway message is that for women, sex is not a simple input-output equation (if you get my drift) in quite the same way it is for men. Women’s vulvas are all shaped and wired slightly differently from one another, and these slight differences mean that every woman needs different things. Also, psychology is a HUGE part of sexual pleasure for women. What society insultingly refers to as “foreplay” is actually the main event for most women. So make love to her mind as much as you do to her body. And if you actually care about her, help her feel good about her individual differences. Make her believe you revel in them.

  5. SexStarvedMuslimLady says:

    Oral sex for women involves the stimulation of the clitoris and vulva with the lips and tongue. For many women, it is the ultimate sexual experience, preferable to intercourse nowadays. For another group of women who find it difficult to reach orgasm or ‘come’ easily during sex, they depend on their partner sucking them to derive the ultimate and intense pleasure of sex. Unlike what obtained several years back when any attempt to “ suck” a woman was perceived as ‘dirty’ or unreligious, nowadays more and more women are fast becoming addicts of sucking their private parts as a ‘compulsory aspect’ of foreplay before getting down to the real business of love making. These days a lot of women also expect their partners to be knowledgeable about their body system. Hence they don’t want their partner to get down and start love making. They like to be aroused by the way of clitoral or vaginal stimulation. Also a lot of women are increasingly frowning at men fingering them. The reason for this might not be unconnected with hygiene reasons. Another reason women these days appreciate to be sucked is the urge to feel the action at their G-Spot and Clitoris. These 2 erogenous zones as far as a woman’s sexual pleasures are concerned may be conquered territories, but some men don’t really have a clue about the difference between the 2. Besides, lots of women expect it these days and men who perform great cunnilingus are always appreciated and considered fabulous lovers.

  6. flarelaura says:

    If this is something she wants, it feels AMAZING to the woman. I’m surprised more men haven’t caught on to this little trick. I’ve had sex with more than a couple of men (I’m in my 40s now and have had a healthy sex life) and I must say I’ve only been with three men who understood that sucking on a woman’s clitoris is magical. Most men focus on licking. That’s nice, yes. But when a woman performs oral sex on a man, if she just licked his penis, that would be pleasant, yes…but wouldn’t he like her to suck too? Take a cue from that. Bottom line, IF she wants you to perform oral sex on her, try to switch up your approach every few minutes and pay attention to her reaction. If she seems to like what you are doing, do more of that. If she doesn’t really react (or she reacts negatively), switch it up. And yes, suck. But–not too hard. The clitoris is not a drinking straw. Oh, and pro tip: you may look really cute with a little stubble on your face…but if you are going to perform oral sex on a woman, you may want to be clean shaven. She will probably appreciate it.

  7. samuelRxxx says:

    Why men love to lick do you women know? Let me tell you based on personal experience. To start with…there is the visual aspect…all pussy’s look different…some have labia that really hang out (my favourite) and some are almost hidden away like a cute little package, and of course there is everything in between (pardon the pun). The psychological factor for me is a huge turn on too…knowing the physical sensation the woman is receiving from my efforts is a real rush…hearing and feeling her responding, and feeling the heat on my face as she gets more and more excited is a huge thrill. The taste of each woman is also different…I adore tasting a woman and the smell drives me crazy…it’s something that is particular to every woman. Sometimes (depending on my mood) going down on a woman is an extremely submissive act…fulfilling her needs, with no expectation of reciprocity…knowing that you are there to drive her to orgasm with no certainty of the same in return, and hoping like mad that you will get your reward if you do a good job… Other times, it’s a dominant thing…knowing that you are in control, building her pleasure, and knowing that it is you who decides when she cums, or if she cums…That is a total rush! I could go on and on…and sometimes I do 😛

  8. setterhorny says:

    It is not cunnilingus but tremendous sex experience. I was 19 and she was 38, experienced and highly sexed. We had been seeing each other for a couple of months and couldn’t keep our hands off each other. It was a Sunday morning and I was downstairs making coffee while she was in the bath. I heard her get out and took the coffee upstairs. She stood their with a towel wrapped around her with wet hair looking hot. I put the coffee on the bedside table and went up behind her and kissed her neck. When she turned to face me, she dropped the towel. This woman was totally naked and smelt amazing. After her bath, I stroked her tits and she gasped with pleasure. She had the most sensitive tit’s I’ve ever experienced. We kissed as I caressed her brilliant breasts. Then I dipped down to suck each nipple. God how I loved to suck tits! I licked and gently bit each one of them by running my teeth over them. She was moaning now, begging for more. She wanted me to keep going. By this time I was rock hard. Just doing this turned me on. She took off my top then stripped me to boxers so that she could see my throbbing dick though the boxers. She panted as I continued to suck her now hard nipples, “I want your cock” she gasped as she reached down to start slowly wanking me off. I threw her on the bed and saw her cunt glisten as she opened her legs. She was soooo wet after my tit sucking. I began to kiss her, then moved to her large tits again. Then to her trimmed vagina. I spread her legs and put them behind her head. She was very rude, and I loved it! “Lick my pussy, make me come she said huskily.” I began licking and sucking her labia and clit sucking the juices out she tasted great. I made her cum. She shuddered, then leaked her gorgeous juices into my mouth, I dipped my finger in and smeared the juice on her nipples so I could taste her every time I sucked them. “Fuck me, now!” she said. I grabbed my now throbbing cock that was ready to explode and began rubbing it up and down her dripping clit. Teasing her clit, poking my head in and out. She wanted what I had. Then I penetrated her deeply. I put her legs over my shoulder and went even deeper. I fucked her hard and fast. She was screaming for more. She said she wanted to taste me after all I had the pleasure of tasting her sweet pussy juice. I pulled out my cock and she licked my head and teased it until I shot my warm sticky load down her throat and on her tits. She licked every last drop, the greedy slut. When it was over, I collapsed in her arms and went to sleep satisfied and exhausted.

  9. christinabears says:

    I am 30, single and have only been with two guys. Never been licked until it happened to me. My boss have me her keys to a cabin in the mountains to take some time off. It was on a winding tree line road, just wonderful. The first night I sleeped well and got plenty of rest. The next morning I felt horny and decided to masturbate. I was getting worked up but just not having an orgasm. I needed something to drive me over the top. I went and sat on the porch just in my robe, I started rubbing my clit under my robe. It was exciting sitting outside and rubbing my clit. I really wanted more. I was getting really horny. I grabbed my chair and walked it to the edge of the road where the driveway began. Anyone driving by could see me. I was just too nervous to try anything. There were no neighbors and only one car would go by everyonce in awhile. I wanted to do this. I remembered seeing a mask on the nightstand in the bedroom. one that would cover your eyes to block our the light to help you sleep. I went and grabbed and and brought it out to the street with me. I put the mask on and sat their next to the road. I could feel myself getting really wet, now I was excited. I could not see a thing. I opened my robe to the world and started careesing my breast. Everything felt extreame. I could barely stand it. Nothing was going to get in my way from an orgasm now. I moved my hand down to my soaked clit. I spread my legs to the world and started rubbing my clit. I was so horny and excited. I could feel my orgasm start to build when I heard a car coming. I wasn.t going to stop I was too close. I heard the car stop out front it was too late they could see me and what I was doing. I did stop. I had goose bumps all over my body I could not believe what I was doing. Someone got out of the car and started walking toward my. I started to orgasm. It was so intense. I tried not to make any noise but I could not help it. I moaned as I had the best orgasm ever. I layed their with my legs open knowing someone was standing right in front of me. Then suddenly I felt a soft tongue lick my expose vagina. I jumped but let it happen. That wonderful tongue licked up my wettness and worked its way up to my clit. I had a more intense orgasm then before. I almost past out my breathing was so heavy. When I finished this person quickly went back to their car and started the engine. I quickly pulled the mask down to see them driving away. The driver was a woman. My first lesbian experience and I did not know it, until it was too late.

  10. byfemalexx says:

    Cunnilingus is great path to unending pleasures. I was about 17 and in high school. Me and some other girls were at a sleep over and doing a kind of “truth or Dare” game. One girl dared to me to make out with her so I did. We all giggled about it, but later she and I made out some more but this time I stuck my hand into her panties. I remember how excited I got as my fingers first touched her pubic hair and then as I mover lower and slid my middle finger through her folds over her clit. I was sooooooo wet that I wanted her to do the same, and she did. We spent much of the evening looking at and fingering each other’s pussies. I think we tried to see how many fingers we could get into each other with-out hurting each other. Kind of silly, but so much fun. I didn’t try eating another girls pussy unti college. That was with my freshman room mate. We use to lounge around our dorm rooms naked. Since boys were not allowed on the floor after 8:00 pm we could wear very little nad feel safe that some guy would not see us and get a cheap thrill. My room mate and I were both naked and discussing, of all things, our “Bushes”. We were considering shaving our pussies, but didn’t know if we should go bald and how our “Kitties” would look with out hair. A few beers later into the evening and we were talking about girl on girl sex and wondered how it really was. We decided to see if we could do this girl-girl thing and soon I had my face just inches from her pussy. I remember thinking, “Gosh, am I really giong to do this?” I thought, well I’m here I might as well try. I remember first just kissing her pussy lips at the top near her clit. It felt really funny having her pubis hair brush against my face. it was soo soft and wet and the arroma drove me mad! by the end of that semester, we would god down on each other at least 3 to 4 time a week. To this day I still engage in some girl girl fun with a close friend of mine. I’m much more at ease and toy’s are involved. Sooooo much fun. We shave each other pussies at the begining af summer to prepare for the bathing suites. That ussually leads to my tongue on her clit and her tongue on mine. Getting close to that time of year. Can’t wait! By the way, I still love a really hard penis I love watching cum squirt out of my boyfriends penis. and it tastes too good.

  11. sexycatty says:

    Whether it is cunnilingus on vulva or fingering pussy or licking pussy lips or sucking labia or ssllluuurrrrrping juices from ass it all happens in a spur of a moment when you never imagined. I had best experience with a lady. I had some crushes in the past and also some encounters and experiments. But I had my real full sex with a woman only this year after I turned 35. I met this woman for whom I was babysitting her daughter. We were good friends for 3 years. But then she started showing signs of interest in me. She was appreciating my features like thighs, legs, boobs etc. As we started getting closer discussing these I was getting very aroused every time she talked to me. She said she was getting excited too. We spoke about sex almost every day. Then one day she called me to her house. I was at my peak that day about my craving for her. She was very excited also. We sent our kids to play. I picked up courage and proposed that she allow me to touch her bod. I could see her blush but was saying no no. Then she said ok and let me unbutton her shirt. I got my first orgasm when I just touched her boob. I rubbed them for some time and she started moaning. I could not resist from kissing her. We kissed for almost 2 minutes. She then stopped me and said she wanted to see my boobs. Before I could open, she rushed and pulled my shirt and bra out. She could not wait lol. She could not stop touching and squeezing my boobs. Then before we knew we were completely undressed and on bed. She still had some body hair and that excited me even more. Every time I sucked her tiny boobs she asked for mine. We had loads and loads of sucking. Then I went down to remove her panties. It was soaking lol. She had cum several time. I knew it was working. So we went for it. We tribbed for some time and both of us saw heaven. She was asking for more and more. I could not just stop it. Then I heard my husband at the door as he came looking for me. He found out what we did. The. Her husband came to know. My husband knew and he was cool. Her husband was mad. Now she pretends she is hetero but I was the one who made her do it. I did really initiate it but she was interested more than me and also had more orgasm than me. Anyway, it was an experience I will never forget. I am just hoping I can do it all over again with her. Every time I remember that evening I masturbate!

  12. nymphosext says:

    I m bi. Everything boils down to the partner. Licking pussy with my girlfriend helped me a lot. Trying out woman is no harm if you want to. However ensure everything is cleaned up and her pussy has no warts, infection. My first with a woman was just a few years ago and with my current girlfriend. She and I had been friends for about 5 years.We did everything together, she was and is my best friend, but never any sexual things. Things at home with my husband were ok, but sex was boring and I wasn’t being satisfied. I started watching porn and would then masturbate to satisfy my needs. I would start out watching regular man on woman porn, but always ended up watching lesbian porn and being so turned on. I started fantasizing and wondering what it would be like with another woman. Anyways, this one day I was over at her house. It was summertime, hot out so we weren’t wearing much, shorts and halter tops. We had just had lunch and were sitting together on the couch talking. We started talking about sex and some of the things we had done. I hadn’t done much and most of what she was talking about was with men. So I asked her, have you ever kissed another woman? She said she had. Then I asked her if she had ever had sex with another woman. She said she had, a long time ago when she was young and she told me the story about it. I got so turned on. Then she asked me why I asked. I told her about how I had been feeling lately. She said she understood. Then I asked her if I could kiss her. She just smiled at me, leaned over and we kissed. It was a small kiss, more of a peck. I leaned in and kissed her back, a bigger kiss. Then, she put her arms around me and we started french kissing, holding each other close. I could feel our bra-less tits rubbing against each other through our tops. My nipples got so hard and I could feel my pussy getting wet. I started rubbing her tits through her top and then, she started rubbing mine. Her hand went under my top and she was squeezing my tits, rubbing my nipples. I did the same to her. But then she stopped. She said we shouldn’t go any further, she was afraid that it would ruin our friendship. I said ok and I understood.I didn’t want to stop, but I did. I got up and excused myself to go use the bathroom. Actually, I went to collect myself. I got in the bathroom and decided I was going for it. So, I took all my clothes off and went back out. As I came walking out, her eyes were all over me. She said, Oh my God! I walked up to her and said, I’m willing to take that chance. I was inches away from her. She put her hands on me, touching me all over. She stood up, stripped and took me in her arms, our tits pressed against each other, our tongues in each others mouths, our hands all over each other. She laid me down on the couch, she knelt on the floor, she was touching and kissing me all over, sucking my nipples, her hands spreading my legs open, then I felt her mouth on my pussy. I came immediately. Her tongue licking me, her fingers exploring me, sucking my clit, fingering me. I came again, screaming so loud. She got up and laid over me, 69, and I started eating her. It was delicious. Her pussy was so soft, so sweet, I devoured it, making her cum. We must have ate each other for an hour, cumming over and over. We got up and went to her room. We made love all afternoon. Showered together and have been having sex with each other ever since. We have sex anywhere and everywhere. She taught me how to make my husband a better lover and he is now. Now he and I have great sex.

  13. lickerathon says:

    Eating pussy is not turnoff if it tastes good. It depends on cunt’s flavor. My first time she tasted really good. Kind of salty. Sometimes like the stubble sort of scratches your face, that’s the one thing I hate about it. But if they’ve just had their period or are having it, sometimes it smells AWFUL. But eating pussy is really easy. If you spread it open a bit with your hands so that you can see the clit clearly it’s a lot easier, as well. Just go to town on it, pressing firmly against it with your tongue and rubbing it.

  14. DrZubedahAlam says:

    When a woman’s pussy is licked, she will feel sensations that can easily heighten, especially, when her clit is being licked. She will feel a pleasurable heat that spreads from her inner vagina all throughout her groin and ultimately heats up her whole body. The sudden heightened sensation from stimulating her clit connects with the heat coming from her inner vagina. She will feel as if the sensation will make her combust. She will start to groan and moan as the sensation intensifies. If the other part of her vagina is licked at this state, it adds to the whole sensation. But if the clit is left for a longer period of time without stimulating it further, the sensation may die down. It is there fore imperative that while other parts of the pussy is being licked, the clit must be licked back. If the licking action is non-stop, the girl will feel that the pleasurable sensation right down her pussy is building up fast. She may pant and breathe heavily and depending on the speed and interval of licking, she may groan and moan faster. At this point, her pussy will be wet with a sticky substance from her vagina. This is supposed to lubricate her vaginal wall, ready for dick penetration. When this happens, the guys knows that she is at least half way to orgasm already, or almost near orgasm. The girl will feel the urge to make the guy or girl lick faster until she orgasms, or she can choose to let them stop and let the intensity die down a bit before resuming, to prolong the sensation. Otherwise, the girl will have the need to let the licking go faster and faster until she bursts into a pleasurable orgasm.

  15. ChutChaatnewala29 says:

    लडकियो में सबसे प्यारी चीज़ क्या होती हैं बताओ ? अरे वही यार चुत और क्या ? ह्म्म्म्म्म्म और क्या कभी इसको चूसा हे ? चुत चाट ने हमको तो इतना मज़ा नहीं आता जितना की लकडियो को चटवाने में या फिर चुसवाने मे आता हैं | अगर कोई लड़की हमारी लंड चुसे तो हमे मज़ा आता हैं मगर उतना नहीं जब हम उनकी चूसते हैं | चुदाई में सबसे मस्त बात ये होती हैं की हम जेसे ही लड़की को बोलते हैं चूस, तो वो झट से चूसने लगती हैं | और यही उल्टा भी होता हैं की जब लड़की हमे बोलती हाई की मेरी चुत चुत, तो हम भी झट से चूसने को चल देते हैं | चुदाई में अगर लंड और चुत को चूसा नहीं तो फिर क्या किया ? चूसने से क्या होता हाई की पानी निकल जाता हाई, और इससे और भी मज़ा आता हैं चुदाई के समय पर | अगर पानी पहले न निकले तो जेसे ही हम चुत में लंड डालेंगे तो दो मिनट में ही हमारा मॉल निकल जायेगा और उसका भी | इसी लिए पहले एक दूसरे का चूस लेना चाहिए | पहले चूसने से एक दूसरे का पानी निकल जाता हैं, जिससे दूसरे बार पानी निकलने में समय लगता हाई, और जब ताक पानी नहीं निकलता तब ताक जम के चुदाई हो जाती हैं | इसीलिए अगले बार चुदाई करो तो एक दूसरे का जरुर चूस लिया करो | इसमे कोई गलत बात नहीं हाई या फिर घिन वाली बात नहीं हैं | अगर चाहिए तो चूसने से पहले उन जगहों को धो लो पानी से या फिर साबुन से |

  16. हतखभाल भीलाज says:

    हर एक महिला की ख्वाइश होती है कि उसके पार्टनर ने उसकी योनि को अच्छे से चाटना चाहिए। जब व्यक्ति संभोग करता है तो उन्हें महिलाओं की योनि जरूर चाटनी चाहिए। संभोग करते वक्त महिलाओं की योनि चाटने से उनका आनंद द्विगुणित हो जाता है। योनि चूसने से महिलाओं को और भी ज्यादा मजा आता है। जब कोई व्यक्ति महिलाओं की योनि चूसता है तो संभोग करने में और भी ज्यादा मजा आता है। अरे महिलाओं को ऐसे लगता है कि उसके पार्टनर ने उसकी योनि बहुत अच्छे से चूस के चाटनी चाहिए। जब व्यक्ति ऐसा करता है तब महिला पूरी तरह से आपके काबू में आ जाती है और आप जैसा बोलते हो वैसा वह करती है। तो आइए दोस्तों आज इस लेख में हम आपको योनि चाटने और चूसने के फायदे बताएंगे। आयुर्वेद के अनुसार महिलाओं की चूत चाटने से चूसने से हार्मोनल सिस्टम और सेल्स के रोगी ठीक होते है | योनि को चाटने से मानसिक दुर्बलता दूर होती है | रात में या दिन में नींद ना आने की तकलीफ अनिंद्रा के कुछ लोगों ने यह भी स्वीकार किया है कि महिला कि योनी चाटने से चूसने से और उसका स्त्राव पीने के बाद उनकी अनिद्रा की बीमारी काफी हद तक ठीक हो गई है | यह सारे फायदे हैं योनि चाटने के बारे में जिस से कि आप कई सारी बीमारियों से मुक्ति पा सकते हैं| दोस्तों हमें जहां तक लगता है कि सारे फायदे को जानने के बाद आपने अपनी बीवी की योनि को चाटने का मन बना लिया होगा | तो दोस्तों आगे कुछ और चीजों पर ध्यान जरुर देना चाहिए आपको किसी भी अंजान स्त्री की योनि को चाटने की राय कभी नहीं देनी चाहिए क्योंकि यह जरुरी नहीं है कि वह स्त्री की योनि अच्छी हो क्योंकि बुर को चाटते समय यौन रोग आपके अन्दर भी हो सकता है | योनि से यूरिन का स्त्राव होता है इस यूरिन में काफी गंदे-गंदे बैक्टीरिया से पाए जाते हैं दोस्तों और बैक्टीरिया से आपको हानि भी हो सकती है मैंने यह प्रिया क्या मैं आपको एक कुछ फायदे बताएं इसी कारण से योनि को साफ रखना काफी आवश्यक है क्योंकि योनि को चाटते समय अगर योनी साफ़ रहेगी तो आपको किसी बीमारी के होने का खतरा नहीं है इसलिए योनि चाटने समय इस चीज का ध्यान जरुर रखें | अगर व्यक्ति कोई तनाव में होता है तो संभोग करते वक्त व्यक्ति का तनाव पूरी तरह से निकल जाता है। व्यक्ति अगर महिलाओं की योनि चाटता है तो उसका तनाव काफी प्रमाण में कम हो जाता है। योनि चाटना यह कोई दवाई से कम नहीं होता है। योनि चाटने से बहुत से रोग ठीक हो जाते हैं। जैसे व्यक्ति कोई मानसिक विकार हो तो योनि चूसने से वह बहुत प्रमाण में ठीक हो जाता है। योनि चाटने से व्यक्ति के काफी से रोग और समस्या है कम हो जाते हैं। व्यक्ति का चिड़चिड़ापन व्यक्ति को ज्यादा क्रोध आना या फिर व्यक्ति को किसी प्रकार में मानसिक दुर्बलता होना या फिर कोई मानसिक भय होना इत्यादी रोग और समस्याएं योनि चाटने या फिर उसे चूसने से ठीक हो जाते हैं। कई व्यक्तियों को रात में या फिर दिन में नींद नहीं आती है। नींद ना आने से उनका तनाव बढ़ जाता है और फिर वह चिड़चिड़ा सा महसूस करते हैं उनके स्वभाव में भी चिड़चिड़ापन आ जाता है। इस अनिद्रा के बीमारी को आप छुड़ाना चाहते हो तो आपने अपने पार्टनर की योनि जरूर चाटनी चाहिए। अपनी जीभ से महिलाओं के योनि को पूरे मज़े से और गहराई तक चाटनी चाहिए। इससे आप के रोग तो ठीक होंगे बल्कि आपके पार्टनर को भी उतना ही ज्यादा मज़ा आएगा। अगर आपके पार्टनर को आप अच्छे से मजा देते हो तो आप को संभोग करने में भी बहुत ज्यादा मजा आता है। योनि चाटने से महिलाएं उनकी चरम आनंद तक पहुंच जाती है।

  17. ApperozHot says:

    Consigli Iniziali: Esistono due ostacoli riguardo a questa pratica sessuale. A certi uomini non piace l’idea di avvicinare il loro viso al sesso femminile. Hanno un po’ paura (o molta), immaginano che l’odore o il sapore sarà sgradevole. L’altro possibile ostacolo, è che una donna possa aver paura che al partner non piaccia il suo sesso. Ha paura che non sia bello o si sente a disagio all’idea di essere baciata, accarezzata proprio in quella zona. Per una pratica così intima è indispensabile una perfetta igiene. Una doccia, anche solo con l’acqua, basterà per togliere il sudore e le perdite naturali il cui odore, in quella zona, diventa subito sgradevole… Per Cominciare: Prima di passare al cunnilingus è necessario praticare delle carezze manuali nella zona del sesso. Le carezze sul sesso… E’ già un gesto molto intimo, anche se lo è meno delle carezze con le labbra e la bocca. La tappa seguente è costituita, semplicemente, da dei baci sul sesso. Puo’ sembrare facile, ma non lo è. Mettere il viso tra le gambe della partner significa non guardarla più negli occhi e significa anche chiederle di accettare una tale intimità. L’ideale è un uomo che ti dice che il tuo sesso è bello, che ha un profumo e un gusto deliziosi. Non c’è niente di meglio per rendere ricettiva e pronta ad abbandonarti ! Le Zone Sensibili: Il punto più sensibile dell’anatomia femminile è senza dubbio il clitoride. Non si trova sempre facilmente, ben nascosto tra le pieghe delle piccole labbra, nella parte anteriore del sesso. Ma anche tutta la zona intorno al clitoride è molto sensibile : le piccole labbra si gonfiano sotto l’effetto del desiderio e sono ricche di ricettori del piacere. Anche la zona d’ingresso della vagina è molto sensibile ai contatti amorosi, e anche, eventualmente, la parte intorno all’ano. Il Gesto Classico: E’ quello delle carezze sul clitoride. Come ? Con le labbra che baciano, accarezzano, mordicchiano, succhiano, con la lingua che lecca, accarezza, pizzica delicatamente e con tutta l’immaginazione possibile ! L’importante è sapere che ogni donna preferisce essere stimolata in un certo modo. Puo’ preferire i movimenti molto lenti e decisi, oppure più rapidi e leggeri. Puo’ preferire le carezze intorno al clitoride, o direttamente sulla punta di ques’ultimo. La lezione che gli uomini dovrebbere imparare a memoria, è che spesso al clitoride occorre più tempo rispetto al pene per arrivare all’orgasmo ! E il Ciclo? Molte coppie evitano il cunnilingus durante il ciclo ! E’ vero che il sangue puo’ bloccare, far pensare a una ferita. Tuttavia il sangue è un liquido molto pulito, e la pratica del cunnilingus non è sconsigliata… a condizione di non essere sieropositivi. In effetti il sangue trasporta il virus dell’AIDS e l’interno dell’utero è molto sensibile al virus durante le mestruazioni. Per concludere, dato che spesso è il clitoride che viene stimolato durante il cunnilingus, basta una doccia e il clitoride sarà perfettamente pulito, dato che il sangue esce dalla vagina !

  18. rahulpatwardhanxx8 says:

    I’m male. I love eating pussy. I always have. First I love women and the female body. I like to start slow with caressing her and getting her comfortable and aroused so she is open to it. I kiss her body as I go down and gently start to lick her thighs and work toward her pussy. I tell her how pretty her pussy is. I tell her she smells good. I tell her how much I love pussy and eating pussy. I gently lick her lips. When she is relaxed I move near her clitoris. You want to tease at first. Make her want it. Lick it gently. Lick around the clit. Stick your tongue in her pussy and lick up. As she gets into it you can lick harder and as the clit hardens you may be able to suck on it. She needs to be really aroused to enjoy vigorously action. Back off a little to make her want to. She will push her pussy into your face. As she cums she may squirt and twist around and squeeze your head. She will probably want the cock at that time and then will cum again from penetration. She will be incredibly wet now and it’s heavenly. As to how I feel, I feel wonderful and so incredibly aroused and hard and feeling extremely high and intimate with her. My orgasm will be incredibly intense. I feel her orgasm in my mouth almost like it’s mine, like I’m part of her body. It is better than mine. My orgasm is anticlimactic almost. The intimacy I feel is wonderful. I once had an escort say “I feel like I should pay you.” About the taste and smell. If they are clean there shouldn’t be much taste of smell and it shouldn’t last long. Also flavored lube is wonderful. She tastes like a flower.

  19. 54nikitagrey says:

    I was at a friend’s house when I was 16 and got drunk on a Four Loko. I ended up hooking up with a guy in a tiny bathroom and he ate me out — that’s when I discovered men are not good at eating after finding my girlfriend is sex angel of cunnilingus.

  20. CynthiaSullivan43 says:

    I’m a 23 old woman. It can feel amazing, but it depends on many things: on how you’re feeling, on how you feel about your body and, perhaps the most important of all, on how you feel about the other person. I thought I didn’t like it, as I was in a 4 year relationship and after some attempts we just gave up on trying it. I couldn’t do it, it didn’t feel good at all. He wasn’t quite good at it either. Things must be done slowly and gently. Everyone said it was the most wonderful feeling ever, but I would feel so tense every time we tried, that it was a nightmare for me. There was just no sexual connection between the two of us. I also had to learn to love my body and to feel sexy. So if you’re feeling attracted as hell by the other person, if he/she really wants to do it, if you’re sexually aroused and if there are feelings involved, from my experience, it can be mind blowing. What I feel: At the beginning it’s the warming up: it feels nice but it’s not overwhelming at all. You just want them to keep on doing it so that you “heat up”. In this fase I’m thinking of how sexy I feel, what my partner means to me, I fantasise about us, etc… When I start feeling hornier, I feel like I want the other person to do it more intensely. The body becomes more sensitive, the sensation on the clitoris is really good, like when you get to scratch an itchy mosquito bite (read it somewhere here and it’s just like that). At this point I can no longer think that much, but if the other person doesn’t increase the intensity of the moves, I can hold the orgasm and have pleasure for longer. In my case, realising that I don’t want to come already makes me even hornier! And then I come when I can’t hold it back anymore. I start having some weird sensation in my belly, like I’m about to jump off a cliff. This is the best part, the whole body feels extremely good. It’s like you’re melting. It starts to get more and more intense, until it “explodes” – that’s when muscles contract. And right after it, the body slowly starts to relax. My hands become numb sometimes and this can last for a couple more minutes. If the orgasm is too intense, I can have more after waiting a bit. Sometimes it is better than others, even with the same person, because sometimes you’re just not in the right mood. And that’s normal.

  21. quirkycynthia says:

    Add me also to list . Sadly never enjoyed it . I can go without it. Even when it’s good, it’s not good enough to do anything for me. My partner loves it, so sometimes I’ll give in to his request, but I’m just doing it for him. When he does, I just think of it as a great time to figure out what I need to do for the week. He knows I don’t care for it, but he doesn’t know that I use it as time to organize my to-do list.

  22. Ronald92nora says:

    Girls dont get me wrong but I hate cunnilingus, I love when girls suck it. Ugh, why does this vagina taste like a rotten fish? I justified my lack of willingness to go down on girls because I felt it was just like putting your mouth on a toilet seat. People defecate from that area, and I felt my mouth had no business being down there. My friends convinced me that ultimately I would have to get over my mental thoughts of licking a toilet seat and just do it….Don’t get me wrong—I understand what sweat and other chemicals do, but some girls just have death coming from their coochies in the form of a rancid effluvium. You convince me how and why I should lick vagina. I don’t like the taste or smell. Plain and simple. I’ve done it with multiple women, and to me it all tastes/smells the same and I don’t like it. It’s kind of sour and just not appealing to me.

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