How to Love the Job You Hate !

How to manage the Job You Hate most - have fun outside

It’s called “work” for a reason, is a tidbit that you have probably heard many times over the years. Although it is true that if everyone loved their jobs it wouldn’t be called ‘work’, that unfortunately isn’t the case.

According to a recent study completed by the Nielsen Company, close to half of all working Americans surveyed are unsatisfied with their current positions. That is a shocking number of people who are heading off each day to work at jobs they dislike.

Of course, we can’t all be actors, astronauts, millionaires, or lottery winners, some of us have no choice but to work for a living, and work hard for that matter. Sure, there are the lucky ones that have found a way to get paid for doing what they love, and you could as well, but with high unemployment rates and a tough economy, changing fields is not always an option.

Still, there is hope. If you are stuck in a job you dislike, and have no choice but to ‘suck it up’ for the time being, there are a few things you can do that may help improve the outlook on your current employment.

How to Enjoy the Job You Hate

Let It Out – This probably sounds strange coming from me, but if you are unhappy with your current job it can help to vent. Complaining about things is not usually the type of advice I give but when it comes to work, it seems to help people when they open up and share their frustrations.
Try writing your thoughts in a journal, on a private blog, or talking to your friends. You can also vent your dislike on sites like jobvent.com or bossbitching.com. These sites will connect you with other people, just like you, that are frustrated and overwhelmed working jobs they hate.
If you choose this route please make sure that you post your complaints anonymously, and never in a public arena that is connected to you, your boss, your co-workers, or your company in any way. This means absolutely no names!! You might hate your job, but I bet you would hate getting fired even more!

How to Love the Job You Hate most

Be positive

Now that you have your anger out it’s time to do something positive…

Find Something Favorable – The Yin Yang symbol is based on the theory that in every good is a little bit of bad, and in every bad is a little bit of good. Apply this theory to your work environment, and find something you find favorable. Maybe your office is close to a park and you can enjoy the outdoors at lunch time, perhaps there is co-worker you enjoy working with, or a task you take pleasure in during your day. Find the good within the bad and focus on that positive thing, no matter how small it seems.
When we look for things to be grateful for, we are often given others to appreciate as well. With this in mind, don’t forget to find the positive in the fact that you are employed; there are many others out there that do not have this to be grateful for at the moment.
If there really is NOTHING you can find at work that you enjoy then make an effort to create something positive. Decorate your office/cubicle in a way that makes you feel good. Wear a pin, hat, hair tie, or shoe laces that make you smile if you are required to wear a uniform (If your company is really strict then buy some fuzzy socks or silly underwear, and have your own silly little secret everyday!)
Do whatever you can to make your day more manageable and happier. Don’t forget to keep your sense of humor, laughter truly is the best medicine, and it is also contagious. A few (appropriate) jokes and a good laugh may lighten the mood of the entire office.
*Just be sure it is clean, and not taking away from company time. Bosses don’t find that funny at all.*

Abolish norms

You have focused on something positive at work, now think outside the box…

Life Outside the Office – The more you enjoy your life outside of the office, the more positive your attitude will be within it. If things in your life are making you happy, then dealing with the downer of going to work won’t be so stressful. Make time for yourself, get out with friends, and just enjoy life. You can do this on your off-hours, and even during your breaks. A refreshing walk outside, a quick coffee with a friend, or a few quiet moments alone on your lunch hour can help improve your ability to handle stressful situations that arise within the walls of work. Remember to leave you issues at the office when you leave and focus on fun.

How to Love the Job You Hate most - have fun outside

Make an Exit Plan – You might have found a few ways to have fun at work, but if you truly hate your job and cannot imagine doing it for the rest of your life; you need to start planning for the future, and making an ‘exit plan’.
For example: If what you truly want to do with your life is teach music, start thinking about all the small goals that encompass that position. Do you need to take courses? Can you do that part-time after work? Can you take on a few clients on the side? Outline all the steps needed to accomplish your goal and work through them one at a time. Sometimes reminding ourselves that a situation isn’t permanent can help us to better cope with the issues we have with it.

Be firm to basics

In the meantime you must remember…

Don’t Sacrifice Security – Just because you hate your job does not mean you shouldn’t do it right. This is a very important thing to remember, especially if you have made an escape plan or are actively seeking other employment. Be sure that you are working hard and doing your job right. Put in your all, at all times.
In fact, when you really focus on your work the day tends to go by faster, and you may even find yourself happier, and less stressed, by the end of your shift.
Hand-in-hand with not slacking, be sure that you don’t jeopardize your job with a bad attitude. Take a moment to check your attitude at the door, and come to work each day with a positive outlook. Again, this will be beneficial when you are looking for other employment.
A good reference, even from a bad company, can go a long way in the working world!

Seek support

When nothing is working and it’s not just work…

Don’t Be Afraid to Ask For Help – An estimated 19 million Americans suffer from depression, and stress from work can greatly add to this already dangerous disease. If you are truly unhappy with your job, and cannot pull yourself out of sad, frustrated, or depressive moods it is important that you seek help as soon as possible. Some companies offer assistance in getting counselling, or medical treatment. It is important that you talk to someone if you suspect your feelings may be something more than a simple dislike of your job.

Some common signs of depression are: restlessness, irritability, loss of interest in things you once enjoyed, feelings of sadness or hopelessness that do not dissipate, trouble concentrating, trouble making decisions and/or thoughts of suicide. Others include: fatigue, weight loss or gain, trouble sleeping or too much sleep, loss of appetite, unexplained aches and pains (e.g.: headaches, stomach pains, tense muscles) Depression is serious and if you suspect you are suffering from depression you should seek help immediately.

The tips listed above are only a few of many available options. Aside from those listed you could speak to a supervisor about your concerns, switch jobs either within the company or outside, start your own business, quit, and endless other options. These above tips are designed to help you cope with your current position. These tips are not guaranteed to make you feel better about your job, but a positive attitude and outlook can go a long way in life. Try to stay strong and look for ways to improve your situation. I can not stress enough how being grateful for what you have helps to create more things to be grateful for. Try to find some positive, and look for ways to balance out the negative emotions you have regarding work. There is always light within the darkness, as there is darkness within the light.

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