How do I know if my Daughter is Masturbating or Lying about Masturbation?

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We received few queries on knowing about behavior of a girl child from concerned parents. With emergence of technology access to porn is easy which result in behavioral changes in children. Parents should never feel embarrassed if they find their children masturbating in fact they should listen to them and clear their apprehensions about sexuality.

Being mother you should treat her as a young friend when you talk about her femininity.

Masturbation is the sexual stimulation of one’s own genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. The stimulation may involve hands, fingers, everyday objects, sex toys such as vibrators, or combinations of these. Mutual masturbation (mutual manual stimulation of the genitals between partners) can be a substitute for sexual penetration and recently girls practice this due to easy access to lesbian porn. Studies have found that masturbation is frequent in humans of both sexes and all ages, although there is variation. Various medical and psychological benefits have been attributed to a healthy attitude toward sexual activity in general and to masturbation in particular. No causal relationship is known between masturbation and any form of mental or physical disorder. Though it is still considered taboo in general public to discuss the topic openly.

We will cover both aspects of masturbation healthy as well as harmful affects of it.

How to find your girl is lying about masturbation?

Mood swings

Sudden mood swings is seen among girls who regularly masturbate. Frequent release of endorphins result in behavioral changes and submission to instant gratification cause drastic changes to normal conducts. Changing topic or picking up frequent fights is seen common among habitual masturbators. When you notice such erratic conduct, no need to panic, do not leave her alone, make her comfortable about sexuality and educate her about harmful affects of masturbation in subtle manner.

Share

Girls have natural tendency to hide feelings from people whom they are not comfortable with but share it with close confidantes. Get close to her best friends, invite them home. Be nicer to them. Talk sweet or even bribe them then it is easier for you to peel off the secrets. Once known educate your girl child about masturbation and why it is a natural phenomenon.

Search

Search her study. Her room to look out for one of those kinky stuffs that is used by women to self-orgasm.

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Lack of focus

You will notice lack of concentration. Those girls who frequently masturbate are not be able to focus on their work and their social life. She can’t able to talk to other by making eye contact because of lack of confidence. Women who masturbate lot, try to live lonely and go into recluse. Students with this habit can’t focus on study.

Crackling sound of joints!

If girls do extreme masturbation (10 to 15 times in week) and continue this habit for very long time like for almost a year then this will harmfully affect her bones. When she try to masturbate a lot in short  time she ejaculate fluid that is helpful in construction of bones which include phosphorus, carbon and other minerals. Quick masturbation extracts lot of productive elements from bones. Her body joints including knees and elbow start to make sound on moving just like an old person.

Facial expression

When a lady is hiding and lying about masturbation her expression will be an emotion of distress, characterized by the eyebrows being drawn upwards towards the middle of the forehead. Asking a lot about her behavior make her uncomfortable or excited which is seen in her facial expression. This cause short lines to appear across the skin of the forehead.

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Covering nose or rubbing eyes

Some parents are direct. In case you are straight-forward parent then notice her hand movement to eyes and nose. When your daughter falsify about her masturbation habit, she is more likely to cover her mouth with a hand or to place the hands near the mouth, almost as if to cover the lies coming forth. If the mouth appears tense and the lips are pursed, this can indicate discomfort about hiding secrets.

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Voice pitch

If you caught her fingering act then teach her about benefits of masturbation. However if she is not showing signs of covering nose or moving her head then she is smart in lying. Usually a girl’s voice can be a good lie indicator. She may suddenly start talking faster or slower than normal, or the tension may result in a higher-pitched or quavering tone. Stuttering or stammering may also point to a reaction to your insistence on revealing her privy conducts.

After several attempts of conversation fail, you are not able to identify from her behavior then accept the truth. There are 14% of girls (post puberty) who still do not masturbate, your daughter may be one of those nice girls!

 

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  1. शमिता हभोज says:

    मुझे बहुत दिनों से शक था क्योकि ६ महीनो से बेटी के व्यवहार मे बहुत बदलाव आया है । पढ़कर शक और बढ़ा है । वह सब लक्षण इसमे बताये गए है जो मेरी बेटी दिखाती है । वैसे भी बहुत बार उसकी पैंटी मे पानी लगा देखी हूँ ।

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