Fingering Vagina: Female Masturbation Advice

Fingering Vagina - Female Masturbation Advice

Female masturbation is all about orgasms and release through clitoral stimulation. All about solo pleasure. The confident and bold women prefer it and are open to discuss on the ways to improve the performance and pleasure of massaging vagina and clit.

Though, even today, majority of females feel at least somewhat uncomfortable with the idea of masturbation. Our society considers such women whorish and isn’t very accepting of female masturbation, so most women feel a mixture of guilt, shame, embarrassment, and anxiety whenever discussion of such topics occur on exploration of their body and self-stimulation.

There is no harm in having shyness about masturbation as that is one of the gifted traits in women but still they should not feel guilty on ‘massing ownself’ infact it is safe and protected sex which derives almost similar orgasm. And your imagination is limitless, which otherwise is not possible.

You are reading till this passage which make it sounds like you’re not opposed to masturbating, but that you may still have some conflicting feelings about it. It’s worth taking the time to explore your beliefs about masturbation. Women who find themselves particularly hesitant may want to ask themselves questions like, “where did these feelings about masturbation come from?” and “do I want to let these beliefs continue to operate in my life?” If you find you have a real mental block about masturbation, then you might want to examine where that comes from with a professional.

And once you introspect, you will find that there are millions of similar females like you out there, who actually explore their body without feeling ashamed out of it…Right from CEOs to assistants – and it does not hamper their health or growth in the company or rapport in the society.

Masturbation is the best option as it saves you getting desperate and cheating your husband. Moreover, the discreet is highest making you explore all your fantasies.

Female Masturbation Advice

Break the taboo

Masturbation comes from the latin manus (hand) and stuprare (to soil). No wonder it was condemned as dirty for so many years! The religious beliefs still says masturbation is a perversion.

Today women are much freer, but there are still few women who admit to masturbating, though 45% of them masturbate regularly, there are more than 73% who have tried it at least few times in a life. Why is masturbation something to feel guilty or embarrassed about?

Our upbringing can play a vital role in our attitude: some parents forbid their children from touching their genitals, which can cause blocks later on in life and turn something that should be enjoyed into something dirty. Though they are right from parental perspective because masturbation habit at tender age can later cause depression and lower confidence in a person.

Finding your sexual balance

Many studies have shown that women who masturbate enjoy much more active, fulfilled sex lives than those who don’t.

A large majority of women only achieve orgasm through masturbation, so those who still refrain shouldn’t hold back. Masturbation is the best way to get to know how and where you like to be touched and discovering your body: your clitoris, G spot and other erogenous zones. Once you know how to make yourself come, it will be easier to guide your partner so that both of you have a better sex life.

female fingering vagina - massaging pussy techniques

Using your fingers

Sitting or lying down with your legs apart, use your hands to caress and stimulate your genitals.

Start by exploring your vulva, opening your small and large set of lips to get to your clitoris at the front, and use your index finger. Stimulate your clitoris from top to bottom, or if you’re particularly sensitive, make circular movements. Find the rhythm that gives you the best sensations and maintain until you reach orgasm.

fingering pussy - vagina masturbation

If you’re shy, use an object

The vagina is deep and difficult to access with your hands. Use an object to help you: toys, the handle of a hairbrush, cucumber etc, and use your imagination to explore. Or make it easier by lying on your front, placing the object between your legs and using a back and forth motion. Find the rhythm and pressure you enjoy best. Remember to clean the object before inserting it inside.

If you’re lazy, use a sex toy

Vibrating massage toys, clitoral stimulators and dildos…it’s easy to equip yourself with sex toys! You can use them sitting, standing or lying down: they’re very easy to use and they’re very effective.

Ideal if you don’t want to have to make much effort, or if you want to orgasm in 3 minutes flat! Use them to stimulate your clitoris with vibration or simply manipulate them wherever feels good. The only downside is the cold contact with a mechanical object and don’t get addicted like the Sex and the City girls. Seriously, there is a genuine risk of addiction to sex toys.

vagina masturbation tips on massaging fingering pussy

Solo or shared pleasure?

Solo masturbation doesn’t necessarily compensate for a lack of sex. It’s a moment of private pleasure during which you can forget all constraints, and give in to all types of fantasies.

It’s a preconceived idea that only singles masturbate. If you choose to share the pleasures of masturbation with your partner, it’s a sign of how close and trusting your relationship is. As he watches you pleasing yourself, he’ll learn more about what you like.

Incoming search terms:

3 Responses to Fingering Vagina: Female Masturbation Advice

  1. Dirtylady says:

    Please also give information about mutual masturbation. It will be of great help for readers like me.

  2. Cluadia Night Queen says:

    Thanks for good advice.

  3. sweet15 says:

    Newbie to fingering so I have to learn more things.I only use pencil, pen and middle finger. Now I know i can mke use of more fingers. wow

Leave response on the above Health guide