72 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

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Sex-life is part of a person’s day-to-day existence which may involve sexual activity or represent the absence of sexual activity. In general parlance, the term can have many sub-meanings and social layers, but generally includes the following as per wiki information:

The individual is able to, on either regular or semi-regular basis, enter into voluntarily agreed and consensual situations involving partnered sexual activity, i.e. an activity other than solo masturbation. This would inherently mean there is at least one other person per situation, with or without sexual activity, and regardless of whether or not these situations are sexually monogamous; i.e., a “sex life” can be had just as easily with a long-term sexual partner as it can with multiple partners in rapid succession over a lifetime. The idea of a ‘regularly or semi-regularly’ sex life varies but categorizing an individual who is involuntarily celibate (as opposed to voluntary abstinence) as having a sex life may be inaccurate.

Presuming the above is true by default, the individual who has a sex life is then able to explore and deepen his or her existing sexual skills and also, when s/he desires it, is able to have the opportunity to learn new ones and to “grow” as a sexual being.

As you know that right from morning to evening EXPLORATION and EXPERIMENTATION become keys to spice-up your sex life.

When you woke up and rolled over this morning, did you see some “regular old crackers”? Are you three days, three months, three years, seven years or more in a relationship and thinking things have to get better because this gumbo has lost its spice?

Let us help you in spicing up your relationship!

How do I spice up my Sex Life?

No worries, read carefully and explore it in your life.

Exploration of Sex life

1) You first have to decide if your partner really wants to spice things up. If not, it won’t matter. This kitchen needs two cooks. If both people aren’t focused on the dish, it won’t be successful.

2) Honest communication. It’s time to share those deep, dark, filthy fetishes without judgement and then decide what you both feel comfortable doing.

3) Explore, push the envelope and go at it with reckless abandon!

A friend of mine decided she was ready to explore her freaky side with her new mate. One morning when he walked back into the bedroom after his morning shower, she was playing with her toy, well lubed and told him to give it to her…anally.

He was shocked, thrown off balance…and intrigued.

Another friend webcammed from work with her husband and proceeded to pleasure herself right then and there. She stopped before climax and instructed him that it was his job to finish it when they got home.

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They never put their kids to bed faster.

Pushing the envelope works. Here are 72 ways you can do it:

1. Go to the sex club and watch…hell…participate!
2. Go to the strip club together
3. Strip for your man/woman at home
4. Give each other lap dances with a happy ending
5. Role play as soon as they walk in the door
6. Wear a sexy costume
7. Do that freaky thing you always fantasized about but were scared you’d be judged
8. Watch porn together
9. Give her/him some unprovoked, out of the blue, surprise head in the kitchen
10. Swallow for the first time…and enjoy it [or do a great job of acting as if you do]

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Recurring Effect

11. Be gentle with her
12. Tease her
13. Give her/him a massage with a happy ending
14. Have sex in public
15. “Christen” every room in your place (both places if you live separately)
16. Dress. No panties. Let him see you/touch you in public
17. Try new positions. There are LOTS of kamasutra poses.
18. Have a threesome (not if you are one partner person)
19. Have a foursome (not if you are one partner person)
20. Have a fivesome (…get the picture?)
21. Have sex with all the lights on
22. Have sex with only candles lit
23. Have sex in pitch blackness with only your voices and bodies to tell the tale
24. Have anal sex
25. Titty f#ck
26. Ask for the facial if you really want it
27. Ask her if you can give her a facial if you really wanna try it
28. Record it, watch it together, have more sex, erase it…(ERASE IT!)
29. Record something for him/her
30. Do it with the music blasting
31. Send him sexy pictures while he’s out with his boys
32. Send her a sexy picture while she’s out with the girls (Don’t show anyone those pictures)
33. Go to the spa together like close partners
34. Write a sexy story for each other and read them aloud
35. Exercise together

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Mutual Admiration

36. Cook for him/her wearing something sexy..or just an apron
37. Talk dirty during sex
38. Tell him/her how you want it…during
39. Spank her
40. Spank him
41. Whip him
42. Whip her
43. Tie her/him up
44. Blindfold her/him
45. Bring out the toys
46. Use her toy on her
47. Use his on toy him
48. Use her toy on him (no judging)
49. Let him watch you pleasure yourself
50. Let her watch you pleasure yourself
51. Mutual masturbation
52. Give him head during Sportscenter
53. Give her head during Basketball Wives
54. Reading sex expert new suggestions and sharing it

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Be Dirty

55. Read The Dirty Details together (shameless plug)
56. Have tipsy sex (wine is a wonderful de-inhibitor)
57. Rent a hotel and leave it a wreck from the wild sex you had
58. Have sex in a hard back chair
59. Have sex on a counter top
60. Have sex on a table (try unique pose, please don’t break the table)
61. Give him head while driving (stay in the left lane, proceed with caution)
62. Digitally stimulate her while driving (use dirty texts)
63. Flirt with another woman in front of him
64. Whip cream, honey, chocolate syrup, peanut butter…(that was not a recipe)
65. Baby oil, plastic sheets…(that was not a child care tip)
66. Use a toy on her while you’re having sex
67. Lick her from the back
68. Lick him from the back
69. 69 pose
70. Cum swapping after long oral sex sessions
71. Using toes to rub her vagina
72. Sniffing her vagina and teasing her a lot without licking

You take print this list and leave it on his/her pillow with your favorites circled. Try different tricks every other day and rejuvenate your sex life.

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6 Responses to 72 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

  1. h0rnyme says:

    i always love sex 24×7. i m self proclaimer that i am nympho 🙂

  2. Aliyah Ansari says:

    Sleep together without having sex, just cuddle and bathe in the physical intimacy then after cleaning set the room dark and start licking, sucking each other on all penis, vagina and anus. You will generate too much fun.

  3. HottieGal says:

    Hey guys! I’m 18, and my boyfriend is 19. We’re both virgins, and have never had any sexual experiences. We’ve been together for almost 6 months and are truly in love. We want our relationship to be more intimate. However, we’re not ready for sex. I’m looking for some ideas. Ideas that can EASE us into the more intimate and sexual things. We haven’t gotten past kissing and hugging. Thanks, guys!

  4. hareth goldron says:

    Keep partner excited. It can get boring if you are doing the same position. Jump up on top and take control some time. Start by facing him the turn around and face his toes. Do most of the work from the top. Of course we always start out with position 69 to get well lubricated. A blindfold and a dildo can be handy additions. Surprise him sometimes by going to him naked and initiating sex in a different room.

  5. mohammed says:

    This tip no one tries. I insist on licking each other’s ASSh0les. And fingering it. It gives different type of pleasure. I m bicurious married man.

  6. Rochelle says:

    There’s lots of things you and your partner can do to keep things interesting. Explore some sexual fantasies together. Some good tips are: Try tying each other up. Spanking, choking, scratching, biting. Or try some role playing. Doctor, nurse. Teacher, schoolgirl. Cop, suspect. Ect. Pretend to be strangers meeting at a bar. Tease him all day (or all week) long by sending him dirty texts/pictures until you finally get together for some dirty fun. Wear lingerie/costumes. Give him a strip tease. Go out dirty dancing together. Have sex in (semi) public places (think-bathroom, changing room, beach at night, at a house party, empty stairway, really where ever you can get away with it!) Make a list a new sex positions you want to try out. Visit a sex shop together. You’re bound to find some ideas there. Incorporate toys if you’re into that. Play strip poker/monopoly/gold fish/ect. Cook for him naked. Give each other sensual massages. Have a variety of slow, sensual sex and rough, intense sex and quick, passionate sex and everything else in between. Overall, I think the key to a great sex life is passion. Keep it fun and different. Spontaneity is always great, but so is a romantic, sexy planned out idea. Just focus on pleasing each other, and the everything will work itself out.

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